Is it a domestic violence?
By trusko
@trusko (198)
March 22, 2010 8:24am CST
So everybody or almost everybody has heard about Tiger Woods.
I do not want to discuss what he did. But what I would like to discuss is his wife's reaction.
I cannot possibly imagine how she felt. However what is puzzling me is that she has hit him with a golf club (allegedly) and chip his tooth and nobody has said anything negative (or I have not heard anything) about that.
Many women Im sure would say he deserved that.
Being a woman myself I think there is a lot of hypocrasy in our society towards domestic violence. If it would be man who would do that to a woman, he would be shamed immediately. But why is it that women hitting a man is hardly ever talked about?
As I said I am not here to discuss the reasons, I would like to hear from people on the hitting part. I am giving TW example as it's the most recent one.
Many thanks for your opinions ;-)
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@purplealabaster (22091)
• United States
22 Mar 10
I would say that it is definitely domestic violence if she really hit him with a golf club and chipped his tooth. I do not think that it is alright for either a woman or a man to do that. However, I think there have been cases where a guy has hit the wife and punched the lover when he caught the wife cheating and no charges were ever filed, although these were not highly publicized cases involving "stars" like this one was. If Tiger's wife had been caught cheating, and he had hit her, then I am not sure whether or not circumstances would have been different, but I think that if it were only a slap with his hand then probably there would not have been much said about it. On the other hand, if he had attacked her with a gold club and chipped her tooth, even if he had caught her cheating, then I think it would have been different.
Unfortunately, I think that there is definitely a double-standard, because women are viewed as "weaker" and therefore can get away with more physical violence than a man. Then again, one of my friends started a discussion last week about a teenage girl that was arrested and had to spend the night in jail for slapping a teenage boy, so I have absolutely no idea how these things are determined. I think mostly it is about who is willing to press charges and not about whether or not the action itself was acceptable.