Do you acknowledge your mistakes?

mistakes - acknowledging mistakes
Philippines
March 22, 2010 9:12am CST
No one is perfect enough to do things without any errors. We are only human, all our weaknesses and defects outnumber our strengths. For this, we do commit mistakes intentionally or not. The little faults we do can even lead to greater sins. Are you willing to admit your wrongdoings? Can you swallow your pride? Are you humble enough to say sorry? Do you repent and turn away from sinning? YES or NO. We ought to pick the best asnwer from the two given choices. By doing so, we will find inner peace, comfort and happiness. Surely, understanding from other people and forgiveness from God are easily attained.
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12 responses
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
24 Mar 10
Hi there... Very nice post... Well, I like to admit to my mistakes, even before they're discovered. A few friends of mine consider this as a weakness of mine, and I don't agree with them... It is always good to admit, 'oh I am sorry... I messed up and made a mistake...' Reasons: It relaxes me.. I can't live with some kind of guilt in my heart, which is distracting. Also, I know that now or then, some one is going to discover it and then I will have to face the storm for it, which will be more severe then. But if I admit my mistakes, no one is going to be angry with me. I usually get replies such as, 'oh, you did it eh! No worries, go back to your work, I'll fix it...' And they do! They do it with a wish to help me and they don't ask for any reward or anything. It is always good to admit to your mistakes... It saves us from irritation, annoyance. It saves time and makes one more efficient... Happy myLotting!
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
24 Mar 10
OH Miss... You always have some meaningful and a life-related thing to discuss about... You always have chosen the topics that have been of great interest to me always... So, naturally, I reply to all those.. You've summerized my long post into one statement (and hats off, for that!).. 'Guilt haunts...' wonderful!! Keep it up!!!
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
Yeah, thanks..You must be earning well here in mylot because you're so active in participating discussions, I have viewed your activities huh? Wish I'd be as active as you are, sometimes I'm too lazy haha!
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
Thank Mr_pearl for always participating on the discussions I've started. Yes, guilt will forever haunt us if we do not let go of it. To get rid of the guilt, we need to admit our mistakes and learn to apologize.
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
I agree with you. We are only humans we made a lot of mistakes. Even though I made a mistake I am not ashamed of it, may be at first I do feel ashamed but later on I am happy that I made that mistake because without it, I cant learn from it. We all know that experience is our great teacher...
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
We should not be ashamed to acknowledge our mistakes no matter how people react to our admission. Hello al, I do appreciate your effort in responding. Thanks a lot!
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
Thank you for the comment.. I realize something do you also think that sometimes our mistakes are like a blessing in disguise... right??
@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
Hi eloveriz2004, Acknowledging your own mistakes means you are being humble in front of God and of other people.It is not easy acknowledging mistakes. Sometimes, its case to case basis. As a human, having pride cannot be removed to us humans. And that what makes relationship to be ruined. If you will ask me if I acknowledge my mistakes, yes..I admit it. When I am wrong, I really admit it and keep myself change. In addition to that, I think there are no mistakes in the world but only lessons for us to learned. I always look it that way instead of seeing it as a mistake. It helps me to have a more positive view in life.
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
Humility is the best character one must possess for without it, a person could not acknowledge his/her mistakes. The guilt will never be driven away. Hi annierose, thanks for your wonderful message.
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
yes your right no one is perfect and we all make mistakes though what matter is we learned for those mistakes. sometimes i did it in purpose specially if im too angry to someone else its like a revenge to my part though i felt sorry for that afterward, but then mistakes is mistakes and once we did it we cant bring it back though we can do something of not to do it again.
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
Learning from mistakes can make us realize how terrible to redo such things. Thanks for posting here. Have a great time, my friend.
• Canada
10 May 10
I can totally agree with that noone is perfect that is for sure.....
@___SKY___ (541)
• Hong Kong
22 Mar 10
Hi! Yes! Every time i did a mistake, i admit my fault and say sorry. I can swallow any pride what i have. Have a nice day..
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
A sincere apology deserves sweet forgiveness. Yes, we should set aside our pride at times we need to come up with an apology for the mistakes done. Hi there! Thanks for participating!
• United States
23 Mar 10
They say that everything happens for a reason. I have had many experiences in my life where I made a mistake or the wrong choice and the "reason" it happened was because I needed to learn something in order to grow as a person. In order to learn from our mistakes, we must first acknowledge that a mistake has been made. Admitting a mistake does not make you less of a person - it makes you more. I would rather make a mistake, admit that I was less than perfect, and continue towards becoming my best self than to deny my mistakes and pretend that I am already a perfect person. I have met many people who refuse to own their mistakes and I notice that they continue to repeatedly make the same mistakes, as if they were stuck in a test they can't stop taking until they pass.
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
Yes, that is true. We always learn from our mistakes and for that, we become stronger & better persons. I also knew some individuals who denied having faults even if the results are obvious. Maybe some are scared and ashamed to admit their mistakes but others are just arrogant and pretentious.
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
10 May 10
I'm not perfect person by any means and have made many mistakes in my lifetime....I also believe it's a learning experience to shape who we are and who we want to become....I do apologize and admit my mistakes I may not realize them right away no but I will not back away or deny it....
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
22 Mar 10
being able to admit to my mistakes is pretty easy for me. i will and can say i was wrong or i dealt with whatever wrong and i am sorry. i am not perfect, and i do look at things much different then some. i see how people treat others wrong all the time. when the person who they hurt asked them why did you do that to me, and they say sorry but turn around and do the samething later, to me these people dont care who they hurt. i alway say there are two people in this world. those who do wrong and can admit to thier own mistakes and say sorry and really mean it. and those who dont care if they hurt anyone, and they just keep it over and over.
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
A lot of people do mistakes over and over again even if they know it's hurtful to others. Hi syankee, thanks for your nice response.
@saiKO92 (392)
• Malaysia
22 Mar 10
Hello.. I know as human beings we tend to make mistakes. Sometimes when we do a mistake we feel like it is good but when things get worse we regret it. For people who realize that they couldn't turn back time, we can expect them to acknowledge their mistakes. For those who don't, I guess they'll just keep repeating the same mistakes. For me, I know I'm a helpless human being in this world so when I made mistakes, I will acknowledge them. Whether to those who is sinned to or only to myself.
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
We are weak and it shows when we commit mistakes. It's so regretful to look back at our past actions & words that have caused pain/offense to other people knowing that we can never restore everything. Hello! Thanks for your great words.
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
12 Aug 10
Absolutely. Everyone should admit their mistakes. No one should ever hide their flaws or cover up their errors. I absolutely agree with that, and if at some point I make a mistake, I'll be sure to admit to it, assuming that ever happens.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
4 Aug 10
Well i do acknowledge my mistake when i hurt others
@rautrahul (267)
• India
27 Sep 10
It doesn't make any difference if you have made an insignificant mistake or a serious mistake, you need to take the ownership of the mistake, admit to it, apologize for it, fix it & not repeat it. I acknowledge my mistakes & tell the truth if I make a mistake. A man must be big enough to admit his mistakes, smart enough to profit from them, & strong enough to correct them. Mistakes are fact of life. It is response to the error that count.