Do you find your friends treat you not as well as you treat them?

China
March 23, 2010 1:16am CST
I used to have some good friends, but when I found them treat me not as well as I treat them, I was upset, and now, I find the only people treat me well enough are my parents and my husband. I had several female friends before, when we were all in school, we got along well with each other, but when we left school or college, if I didn't contact them forwardly, they never paid attention to me. I think it is not the reason that they are busy, I am busy too. When they need some help, I tried to do a favor, but they never asked whether I was upset or needed any help. So now, I stop contacting with them, because I don't think they know what friend is. Did you have the same experience before? Will you give up such friendship?
3 responses
softwere508
@softwere508 (5)
• China
23 Mar 10
Some friends worth your everything and some friends don't.The fact is that people are illogical,unreasonable,and self-centered, LOVE THEM ANYWAY.Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable,BE HONEST AND FRANK ANYWAY.
ghieptc
@ghieptc (2522)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
I think softwere is right. Friendship it depends it person to person. Give it up if it nonsense influence, try to find some real & true friend. That's hard to find now a days.Real friendship.
vielerfolg2010
@vielerfolg2010 (30)
• China
23 Mar 10
Yes, I think you are right, a true friend is hard to find nowadays, I haven't found a true friend after my graduation.
frontvisions101
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
Don t expect too much. i bet they re not even thinking about how you feel not bcuz they don t care but bcuz they have their own problems. you have your own problems so don t add this frustration to your problems. keep on contacting them. if ever they needed help, ask yourself what you prioritize first, if you can help them then do it. if you have your family or job in the way then turn them down. you won t lose them if they really are your friends.
advokatku
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
23 Mar 10
you seem very hope your friend to reply for what you did to your friends. You must know, in a relationship of friendship, don't never there a hope "gratitude from other" because that would destroy the meaning of friendship which have you run