What would you do
By 3cardmonte
@3cardmonte (5098)
10 responses
@jesssp (2712)
• Canada
23 Mar 10
I guess it would really depend on how my husband reacted to it. If he told me about it right away in a 'haha, you won't believe what just happened' way then I think I would be able to laugh it off (as long as the person who was trying to make the move wasn't a friend or anything like that). If he tried to hide it from me then I think it would bother me a little whether I knew the person or not. If the interested party was someone that I knew really well, if they were a friend or someone who I talked to often, then I think I would say something to them. After all, they would know he was married to me and it would be pretty slimy to hit on someone when you a) know they're married and b) know their wife.
@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
23 Mar 10
I would definitely cut that person from my life and expect my spouse to do the same. If the relationship is important to the spouse they would feel it is worth it. I actually do know someone who has done this because the person was sending text messages to her husband several times a day without her or the spouse of the other person knowing about it.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
23 Mar 10
Well First off all I'd be mylotting from jail as I'd have beaten the Birch Tree (ya know what I mean) up. I can trust my husband but I'd still be jealous as all get out and definitely want to let the woman (or who knows man) know what for!
@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
23 Mar 10
Probably depends on if they are successful or not. If my partner remains true, then I'd feel an irritations along with a bit of pride. After all, if or partners are desirable to others, doesn't that just make us feel better in our selection and the fact that this person chose us? I would make a mental note to put no trust in the 'someone' however, unless they honestly didn't know that the aim of their desire was taken. Maybe I'd cut a little slack then.
@momtrying2makeit (3270)
• United States
23 Mar 10
Well I think at some point this happens to all of us friend. For me I would ask them why they are doing that and if they would like it if I did that to them? I think I would try to remain calm but I might get upset or mad during this happening. I think I would stop hanging out with that person if they did that I mean is that a friend? No way nice topic happy mylotting.
@phoenix8606 (4942)
•
23 Mar 10
hell0! well, i am single now, but if I had a girlfriend or a wife and someone tries to take a move on her I think I would go and say him that the girl is busy and i am his boyfriend/husband so that he can just move on in order not to have some headache later if he continues :)
well, i will also ask my gf/wife, what does she mean about it :)
@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
I would confront my boyfriend that if he would entertain a future rival of mine, we'd rather end our relationship. I don't want to share my boyfriend with another girl. LOL. The more with my husband. I wouldn't allow a woman to wreck our home. I would find lots of ways to keep my husband. I won't be doing this for myself but for my kids. I would make my body more alluring by going to the gym and do some toning. I would be more loving to him so that he won't leave us.LOL.
@miranda521 (427)
• China
23 Mar 10
Oh,what a hard question!I don't know how I would do if this happen.I pray it never be happen.