It is useless or stupidity to die for..boyfriend/girlfriend?

it's totally stupidity to die for a boyfriend/girlfriend... I would rather die for my family rather than other people. I don't know why there are people who would kill themselves in the name of love.

Life is precious my friend so why die for boy friend or girlfriend?Best thing is to go for the right guy or gal, marry him/her with concent of parents....there won't be any need to die or commit suiside... Thanks for sharing. Sorry for late response.. Welcome always. Cheers. Prof

hi there siliguri, sometimes things like that is out of control for parent.. I am single but I'd like to share my mothers ways to monitor us.. She embraces our world..She make sure who are the people we go out with and she check eveytime we have breakfast, with how was our night out , she really know us and when we have issues, she is there without telling her she already confronted us.. And I think embracing the world of your children would prevent this things from happening..

Its the strangest thing you grow up with loving parents who take care of you and make sure you get a good education then comes along a guy or girl who sweeps you off your feet. You date for maybe 6 months and something happens that you breakup and one of you decid I can't live without this person and kills themselves. What about their parents and brothers and sisters who have lived with them for whatever years they are alive. It makes not a bit of sense to me and it has to be something in the brain that trigger this type of reaction which for whatever reason they can't handle it. I wonder how many parents have lost kids to this. It has to be something to do with the homones I think but not sure.

if its just a bf then why would i other to kill myself if theres million nor billions of guys out there and his not even a dot to them. i will never be that stupid as i may die yet his still happy with his life. perhaps i will look for someone better than him, more handsome and rich and so i will live a happy life with all the things i can have as maybe its a big slap to his face than die for him.

it is a really stupid thing to do ..... as to wat makes them do it well its all the hype created about love n how givin up ur life for someone proves that u love them

hey siliguri! for me it is definitely not useless to die for the girl that i love, but only in case that i love her. well, maybe also even I don't because I think that i am able to sacrifice my life for each person on the planet, for each good person that really deserves to live, even if I don't him/her. because there is really nothing greater and more honest than that, to save someone sacrificing your own life for that GOOD cause and if I have to do it for my girlfriend, who I still search, I will do it without no doubt