Are you the owner of the dog or is the dog the owner of you?

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While growing up, my family had cats...not dogs. Now that I have my own family, we got my first dog (but not my husbands) a year ago and I am still learning. Not only did we buy her from a breeder, but we had to bring her home a few weeks early as well. I'm not sure if that made a difference in her personallity and all, but sometimes I wonder if she owns me more than I own her. She almost never listens to me and she is quite hyperactive and always tries to play with me as if I am another dog. It's comical from time to time, but when she does something bad, like jumping up on the counter, and it's time to punish her...that is the only time that I feel like I own her since she will "bow down" and take the punishment. Although she still hasn't gotten the fact that it is a bad thing. Another reason why I think she is the owner of the household. We try everyday to make her understand that we own her, and she doesn't own us. It's a bit odd to think about, but at the same time...understandable when looking at wolves and wild-dog packs and how they work as a pack with the "alfa" and all. How to make her understand that we are HER alfa dogs and she is not the alfa...that is the ultimate question. It will be even harder to get that through her hard-head when she is now 1 and almost fully grown. Hmm...