do the up and down in any relation make it stronger

Ups and downs may or may not make the relationship stronger. In love, people look at it differently. Most mature people will make their relationship stronger because they have more experience, they know that it is just another trial and every relationship has its own ups and down. On the other hand, people who has less experience "might" easily give up. They might not be used to it. There is another factor to consider, I believe that whatever trial that passes, if you have genuine love for one another, each trial will just make you stronger and stronger. The trials will be more likely be a Popeye and spinach relationship. Each spinach is a trial and each spinach Popeye eats, he just become's stronger.

i think yes.u know,no relationship can be developed smoothly all time,so there will be many times of misunderstandings or little breakups.and whenever such misunderstanding or breakup is resolved,they move to an upper stage of their love. so i think up and down will strengthen relationships.but not too much ups and downs.lol.

I agree with this statement to a point; Every relationship is going to encounter the good with the bad. There are many things that a couple can go through and it be beneficial for them, but there is also a breaking point that you may not be able to bounce back from.

for me, the ups and downs can really help a relationship grow. in a relationship, there should be fighting and arguments too so both of you can realize where you should adjust. you can also understand each other if the relationship went through certain tests. if both of you gets through it, it makes the relationship mature.

For me i believe it does really help my relationship with my girlfriend because compared last year we were like cats and dogs. But now we can say we've improved a lot because of the experiencs that we had before. I know it alawys like that we are taking the risk because it may also ruined a relationship. It always depend on what situation but for me it went all good. God bless

I think the ups and downs of a relationship is the one that will make you realize that if the person is worth it or not. Having a relationship with someone is still part of the knowing part.. If you really love him or her after the ups and downs then It is the right love for you.

I think up and down is a key to make the any relation stronger.. and if their is no any fight and love in any relations.. then it will not working properly.. so i think.. it is must to have some twist in any relationship.. which is the better way of to make it stronger.. have a nice day and keep myloting always..