why woman often get jealous without reasons....?
By anitarei321
@anitarei321 (548)
Japan
March 23, 2010 10:33pm CST
I am a jealous woman:)....when my boyfriend have holiday or weekend and he not spend time with me i always worry too much what he doing?where is he? who with him?and more i call love...i love him much and need to know everything but he call silly cause sound silly cause like i don`t trust him or what,when he say i spend night drink with friend in another club i was like curious who sit down with you/what you do with her i don`t know how to control myself to need to know everything,i want him just to look at me think of me and all about me,i know that is too much did any one know how to handle jealousy ?i prefer he lie to me about he go here or there with any one then i know the truth what he do for have fun with friend that make me jealous.i hurt myself cause my feeling of jealousy.
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6 responses
@aauecon06 (204)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
I often get jealous too and the only thing I know that we shouldn't feel this way if they didn't make us feel it right? They are at fault to why we are acting like :)
@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
25 Mar 10
yes that is all thing that i feel no feel it right....:( thank you
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
You should trust your boyfriend because its your mistrust that will cause him to cheat. SO if I were you better to trust him & let him enjoy his self alone while you do the same thing it need not be too attached with each other you have to be away from each other from time to time so that you can measure if you really are for each other. SO take time off away from each other.
@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
24 Mar 10
I ll try too,more i am jealous more i feel bad myself:)thank you
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
24 Mar 10
I think it is a little bit normal to be like that, people say you must trust but I believe no-one can be trusted 100%, human nature has weaknesses and people make excuses for what they do...I have seen people say I trust my partner and I also know they are blind as I know there is reason there for the trust to be not deserved...Being single I have seen the trusted husbands of my friends...not so.....women are in competition with each other unfortunately, and men are always looking....just try and not let your anxieties show...
@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
24 Mar 10
may be i just want him to spend more time with me then his friend:)thank you for comment
@sweetkaren (13)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
I'm a woman & I believe we were created as a the relational being. Men on the other hand is more on the career-oriented being. That's why, the greatest failure of a man is losing a job, while a woman is betrayal from her partner. It's really normal for a woman to feel & sometimes over analyze the relational status, because we are more intuitive & feeler. We see the needs of our partner & the need of the relationship as a whole, more especially if we are in love. The problem arises when we don't know how to communicate & all the feeling is bursting. Sometimes, all we need to do is to calm down & ask the right questions at right time & respond to our partner the right way. It's not going to be easy, communication is a skill & if we really want our concerns & relationship to work out, then let's work out our communication skills.
@leth22 (6)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
Why woman often get jealous?, you asked. This happens when we think that we need another person's attention and affection in order to be okay. That attention is available in limited supply, and the possibility that they might direct it to another person is a threat to our perceived need.
@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
24 Mar 10
i just feel that i need him to focus on me at the moment may be that why:)thank you for the comment
@Neatteo (156)
• Malaysia
25 Mar 10
From my opinion, usually the women often get jealous because they love the men so much. She afraid to lose her loved ones. Even though they trust their men but deep inside her heart there is tiny feelings of insecure. They afraid the men will find someones better than her and slowly leave her for nothing.