When u get the salary do u give your parents...?
By siliguri
@siliguri (4241)
India
March 24, 2010 12:12am CST
Hello, friends
In last day of the month when u get your wages or salary anything u can say...do u give some of your salary to your parents...or u keep whole salary with you or give it to your wife...if yes? u didn't give salary to your parents a single amount..then you are not a good child of your parents...despite you parents have good money..but you should give some money out of salary to your parents...which give a satisfactory feelings to them..my children loves us very much..
Please share your view on this...with me...?
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61 responses
@rednet00 (15)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
when i was a single person, that's the second thing i usually do when the salary comes. the first is -off course - pay all the bills.
But now i have my own family and seems that my parents is very much understand about it. Thanks for your understanding mom,dad. Youre the greatest parents in the world !!
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@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
24 Mar 10
If I have work and get my first salary, I would give half of my salary to my parent because I want to show my love and pay back what they have done for me. They have sacrify a lot for me and have finish many money for me too. So I feel i should give my salary for them even it not too big.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
when i was still working i used to share some to my parents since they are old already. even though i already live alone. my other siblings dont share as their excuse is they already have their own family. anyway i dont want to live a good life and eat all the foods i can have while my parents dont even have something to eat for a day.
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@gracefuldove (1668)
• Malaysia
24 Mar 10
yes why of course as long as i know my father or mother does not blow away what i give them . my parents keep a portion of the money i give them. the rest they buy necessities. that is a good arrangement. my decision to give a portion of my salary to my parents is out of the act of obedience and appreciation to my parents. moreover i love and adore them.
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@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
I really want to do that cos my parents are not a rich people so I want to share my money with them. but unfortunately, my salary is not big enough to share with them. I have my own family and my salary is only enough for supplying my own family daily needs. it's a pity I think, but nothing I can do.
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@carloadriancanon (206)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
I usually give a little bit of my money to my parents though they are not asking for it. It's one way of thanking them for all the things they have done for me.
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@grayxenon (1313)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
sometimes i will wait for them to ask..so not as to offend them... i always find ways to share my little blessings to others..
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
24 Mar 10
My salary is only very small, so I don't really commit to pay anything at home. If there's a need that I can extend my financial help, I do, only when I have something to spare. My father understands that.
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@___SKY___ (541)
• Hong Kong
24 Mar 10
Yes i do always give at least 1/4 of my salary to them. Why? because i want to help and i want them to be happy, Even if they are not asking of it, i should give. I think it depends on the situation of your parents.
Have a nice day!!!!
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@Ramsesxlll (1431)
• Finland
24 Mar 10
I have to say that I don't agree. My parents are getting quite good money themselves, and I don't need to give them money for proving the fact, that I love them.
I myself don't get such a big salary, because I'm a student, so sometimes my parents help me a little, by making me some food and such.
Money is not everything in life, there are more important things too.
@xueqin369 (45)
• China
24 Mar 10
In most people's opinion, it is our's responsibility and obligation to respect our parents, whether in the forms of financial assistance or mental conciliation.
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@deadly_snifer05 (2)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
Oh course i will share my blessing to them it's time to give now... it's your turn.
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@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
24 Mar 10
Yes i will.. when o got any job.. and when i get my first salary then i want to gave it to my parents..because they fulfill my all requirements.. and now it's my time to gave them every joy of life..and i also thinks that every person should gave their salary to their parents.. have a nice day and keep mylotting always..
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@venkatachary (1165)
• India
25 Mar 10
I used to send it to my father/mother at the young age when I was working.I used to keep very minimum to my expenditure. After, I used to give it to my wife. I do not spent much outside.Sometime occasionally I spent for snacks /coffee/tea.
@venkatachary (1165)
• India
25 Mar 10
Siliguri is the Place name in West Bengal in India.Your name coincide with that Place.
@silverjapan (233)
• Romania
25 Mar 10
my mom is my only family and she is a lawyer, she doesn't need my $3000
it's cute to give her a present or something, but... she is quite independent