When u get the salary do u give your parents...?

@siliguri (4241)
India
March 24, 2010 12:12am CST
Hello, friends In last day of the month when u get your wages or salary anything u can say...do u give some of your salary to your parents...or u keep whole salary with you or give it to your wife...if yes? u didn't give salary to your parents a single amount..then you are not a good child of your parents...despite you parents have good money..but you should give some money out of salary to your parents...which give a satisfactory feelings to them..my children loves us very much.. Please share your view on this...with me...?
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@aabuda (1722)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
I now actually give some money to my mom. In this way, I can help her buy something for herself and also for our family needs as well.
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• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
when i was a single person, that's the second thing i usually do when the salary comes. the first is -off course - pay all the bills. But now i have my own family and seems that my parents is very much understand about it. Thanks for your understanding mom,dad. Youre the greatest parents in the world !!
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@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
24 Mar 10
If I have work and get my first salary, I would give half of my salary to my parent because I want to show my love and pay back what they have done for me. They have sacrify a lot for me and have finish many money for me too. So I feel i should give my salary for them even it not too big.
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@siliguri (4241)
• India
24 Mar 10
Good vibe coming from your response...that's a good deed showing affectionate towards your parents....thanks for the response...
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• Philippines
24 Mar 10
when i was still working i used to share some to my parents since they are old already. even though i already live alone. my other siblings dont share as their excuse is they already have their own family. anyway i dont want to live a good life and eat all the foods i can have while my parents dont even have something to eat for a day.
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• Malaysia
24 Mar 10
yes why of course as long as i know my father or mother does not blow away what i give them . my parents keep a portion of the money i give them. the rest they buy necessities. that is a good arrangement. my decision to give a portion of my salary to my parents is out of the act of obedience and appreciation to my parents. moreover i love and adore them.
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@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
I really want to do that cos my parents are not a rich people so I want to share my money with them. but unfortunately, my salary is not big enough to share with them. I have my own family and my salary is only enough for supplying my own family daily needs. it's a pity I think, but nothing I can do.
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@siliguri (4241)
• India
24 Mar 10
Ok, so then give them meager amount..for there satisfaction...and i'm sure one day u will get a handsome salary..for your good deeds for them..God is always watching...your feat...
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• Philippines
24 Mar 10
I usually give a little bit of my money to my parents though they are not asking for it. It's one way of thanking them for all the things they have done for me.
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@siliguri (4241)
• India
21 Apr 10
That's very nice..every persons should think as u think of your parents...thanks friend for having such a nice thought about your parents...
@grayxenon (1313)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
sometimes i will wait for them to ask..so not as to offend them... i always find ways to share my little blessings to others..
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@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
24 Mar 10
My salary is only very small, so I don't really commit to pay anything at home. If there's a need that I can extend my financial help, I do, only when I have something to spare. My father understands that.
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@vlws123 (65)
• Malaysia
24 Mar 10
Hi... Well... I give a portion of my salary to my parents. I give them occasionally and most of them it's only a small fraction of my salary. At times, I would bring them out to have some nice dinner. :)
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@redphile (2264)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
i pay all the utility bills in our house, so i just give allowance for food for my family. But i still leave at least half of it for myself or for my savings.
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@___SKY___ (541)
• Hong Kong
24 Mar 10
Yes i do always give at least 1/4 of my salary to them. Why? because i want to help and i want them to be happy, Even if they are not asking of it, i should give. I think it depends on the situation of your parents. Have a nice day!!!!
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@Ramsesxlll (1431)
• Finland
24 Mar 10
I have to say that I don't agree. My parents are getting quite good money themselves, and I don't need to give them money for proving the fact, that I love them. I myself don't get such a big salary, because I'm a student, so sometimes my parents help me a little, by making me some food and such. Money is not everything in life, there are more important things too.
• China
24 Mar 10
In most people's opinion, it is our's responsibility and obligation to respect our parents, whether in the forms of financial assistance or mental conciliation.
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• Philippines
24 Mar 10
Oh course i will share my blessing to them it's time to give now... it's your turn.
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@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
I don't give my parents cash (because they don't need it they have so much more money than me, in fact they're the ones who give me extra) - but I take them out to eat outside or have fun at the mall. It's fun.
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@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
24 Mar 10
Yes i will.. when o got any job.. and when i get my first salary then i want to gave it to my parents..because they fulfill my all requirements.. and now it's my time to gave them every joy of life..and i also thinks that every person should gave their salary to their parents.. have a nice day and keep mylotting always..
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• India
25 Mar 10
I used to send it to my father/mother at the young age when I was working.I used to keep very minimum to my expenditure. After, I used to give it to my wife. I do not spent much outside.Sometime occasionally I spent for snacks /coffee/tea.
• India
25 Mar 10
Siliguri is the Place name in West Bengal in India.Your name coincide with that Place.
• India
9 Apr 10
I was at Bogdogra during 1981 to 1984.
@siliguri (4241)
• India
9 Apr 10
Yeah! u r right i live on this place only..which i adhere in my username that is siliguri..on mylot..thanks for the response...
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
I pay for my loan. The loan I gave half to my parents. The other half for me. I pay the loan, give money to my mom and keep a lil bit for myself. That is why i'm here in mylot now.. Trying to earn extra to buy things I want.
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@baifuwa (636)
• China
25 Mar 10
Now i am a an unemployed .I want to give some money to my parents ,but i can't.So ,i feel too shamed to go back home!
@siliguri (4241)
• India
25 Mar 10
Don't worry one day u will get a good job...then u give your salary to your parents...and that time u will not feel shameful...
• Romania
25 Mar 10
I don't give it to no one, I'm the master of my own money.
@siliguri (4241)
• India
25 Mar 10
Yeah u r right..one day when u need money..then ur children.. i don't give to you..because i'm the master of my own money...think about it...
• Romania
25 Mar 10
my mom is my only family and she is a lawyer, she doesn't need my $3000 it's cute to give her a present or something, but... she is quite independent