Have you suffered from helplessness anytime in your life?
By ava152007
@ava152007 (641)
India
March 24, 2010 12:23am CST
hi
I felt helpless several times, I wanted to help but I am not able to help...
Have u ever felt like that?
1 response
@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
24 Mar 10
Hi Ava,
I have felt that so many times in my life. The most terrible one was with my last break up. I was numb in pain. I was totally lost and helpless. I wanted to drink it away. It didn't go. I tried talking to friends. They couldn't help. I tried to mingle with girls. They seemed to be reminding me of her. The whole situation was so dumb. I felt like all my ways were blocked. I was stuck in a situation where there was no exit. But then I gave up seeking help. I made myself calm and sober and analyzed it. I came to realize so many things during that time. That period served as a pivot in my life. The man I am now is because of that toil I took. I helped myself which was the best thing to do at that time. Yes, self-help is the best help. When you feel like you've lost every hope, that changes your life to a positive direction. You get stronger and nobler.
God bless you
@ava152007 (641)
• India
24 Mar 10
Thanks for sharing!
I really appreciate you for your decision!!!
If all doors closed then their will be small window open, we have to search for that!!
I dont know my suggestion will help u or not but I suggest you to do some meditation to cool your min, I bet that will definetly help you.. This is also part of self help........
I think you are very strong and positive person....
Be positive and strong, nothing wil break u!!!!!!
Good luck
@getbiswa2000 (5544)
• India
24 Mar 10
It was the meditation and meditation alone that got me out of that situation. I think you can be a potential friend. If you don't mind a friendship, please send me an add request. Thanks