long distance relationship
By aauecon06
@aauecon06 (204)
Philippines
March 24, 2010 5:56am CST
does anybody had this kind of relationship? how did it go? are there stories that it lasted? I'll be in a long distance relationship soon and I'm praying that it will last. I've been so afraid about it.
6 responses
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
I can say that long distance relationship is really hard since it's too difficult to find a right partner with this kind of relationship. But if you will be lucky to find the right partner, then your relationship will be as strong or even stronger than a short distance relationship. Well to be able to survive this kind of relationship, both persons involved should be a faithful lovers. If you are both faithful to your partner, then distance will never be a problem coz you are both sure that you are the only love of each other. Plus continuous communication is also important. Trust is also a factor. So whether long distance or short distance if it's true love, then you will be together forever. Have a nice day! Happy myLotting! 
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
Hi! About your thoughts, yes you will often miss the person, you will always think of him. You will never had a peace of mind unless you trust the person. Trust is very important, actually at first, I'm also like that, keeping on thinking that other guys might get her from me, but as time passes by, I slowly gained my trust on her. She made me feel assured that I am her only one. That's why I believe our relationship is very strong now, being distant to each other is already not a problem to deal with. She also already gained her trust to me, coz I was been really faithful to her. We are lucky that we are both faithful lovers. The saying "honesty is the best policy" also applied in our relationship, we are both honest to each other. We are letting each other know what's happening to each of us. Constant communication is also a key to maintain the relationship. We are using both phone and computer to communicate. We are really in love and we are very happy for each other. That's why it's not difficult for us to survive a long distance relationship. For physical connection, you just need to be contented first in imagination. Well, all I can say is a long distance relationship is very possible to last. Goodluck! Have a nice day! Happy myLotting!
@aauecon06 (204)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
Does that mean you have along distance relationship right now? Thats a good news to hear, you are lucky because I always hear and read that long distance relationship don't last. Look at the comments. hahaha. But, it depends on the couple right? :)
@aauecon06 (204)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
Thank you for that lovely comment. Yes, communication and trust is very important. I have two thoughts in mind actually, first is that distance makes us miss the other person more and the other thought is that when you are apart, someone might fall out of love because of lack of physical and emotional connection. I hope the latter will not be true for us. Thanks a lot! :)
@dangahol (71)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
I'm actually in a long distance relationship right now and it's very hard but hey, we love each other and we trust each other. Both of you should just need to set some guidelines in your relationships like trusting each other and making sure that either one of you won't flirt or have a fling with anyone else. Also, set an agreement that you'll be talking to each other at a specific time of a day to catch up on things or to talk about some sweet stuff. It's also good to always assure each other of your love, faithfulness and trust to each other and tell it to each other always. :)
@aauecon06 (204)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
Yes, we can do it :)) You too, lets show that long distance relationship lasts :))
@aauecon06 (204)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
That's good to hear. Atleast there's one good story that I heard. God bless for both of us. We should get through it, ayt? ")))
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
Yeah, mine didn't last very long. There were trust issues, and it just couldn't work out cause both of you won't be able to provide each other's needs (emotional and physical needs most importantly). Communication could be a problem, it's still different when you talk face-to-face instead of just using some chat application over the net.
@aauecon06 (204)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
whoa, that's sad, I'm afraid of the trust issues to because I cant see what he is doing really, but then again, I trust him, I'll just hope for the best then, thanks! :)
@l33tgirl (288)
• New Zealand
25 Mar 10
I had a long distance relationship. I was in New Zealand and he was in Europe on the other side of the world.
We lasted a few years but it became too hard. The things with it was that we were 12 hours apart so if I wanted to talk to him on the phone at 8pm here he would have to be awake at 8am there.
But what was good about it was that when we did split up it was amicable. We stayed good friends because we broke up because of the distance not for any other reason.
It can work but it takes a lot of effort and sometimes people don't want to go that extra mile after awhile.
@cloud31 (5809)
•
25 Mar 10
There are lots of long distance relationship considers successful, well its just depends on you how you gonna deal with it! Fighting in a a long distance relationship is kinda the most hardest matter to deal with since you were miles apart there's nothing you can do about or you cannot even show him/her your sincerity when chances and times are in worse cases, so try your best to talk and make things all in proper when things went wrong otherwise relationship will never be as good as you want it to be!
Happy myLotting!
@aauecon06 (204)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
Wei, thats a good point. Do you think there are successful long distance relationships? because everytime I heard of relationships like this, it don't last that long ---- thats what I heard always. :(
@___SKY___ (541)
• Hong Kong
24 Mar 10
Yes! don't worry about it, do your part as a gf. If you really love each other, no need to worry. Just keep in touch also and do the part both.
Have a nice day!!!
@aauecon06 (204)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
Oh, thank you! we do love each other yeah, hahaha, communication and trust will be the main ingredient, what do you think? Have you been there?
@___SKY___ (541)
• Hong Kong
24 Mar 10
Yes! communication and trust are important. avoid fighting as much as possible, because this is the hard situation in both part.
God Bless...
@aauecon06 (204)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
that would be difficult for me because I tend to fight him a lot when he doesn't return my txts, hahaha, I can be a bit nagger at times, haha
