How many of your online friends here on MyLot do you know well?
By phoenix8606
@phoenix8606 (4942)
March 24, 2010 7:50am CST
Hell0 my MyLot friends!
Maybe you still remember my last discussion about the online friends and the real ones( the ones that we meet everyday and are part of our daily round) and that's why know I want to ask you How Many Of Your Online Friends Here On Mylot And Also From Other Social Networks And Chatrooms DO You Know Well And How Many Do You Feel As Your Real Friends???
BE HAPPY
17 responses
@cloud31 (5809)
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24 Mar 10
Hi pheonix!I have few friends here and I knew them by referral..they are doing well too,they're been very active here in myLot and that's really impress and benefits me .
Some friends here just knowing by sharing responses on some topics and discussions.And they are real nice too.And I value them a lot for being nice and supportive.
Happy myLotting..you are a real nice friend too..
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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24 Mar 10
hell0 Cloud!
thank you for valuing me as a good friend :)
yeah, I am also a friend with all my referrals but I also know them only from some online earning forums and i am not that close to them.
well, soon you will have at least one good friend here, when my transformation into cloud ends
@siliguri (4241)
• India
24 Mar 10
No didn't know not have interest to knowing them...ha ha..just kidding..
I'm trying to give the response...as u do..
yeah! i know 5-6 guys who started mylotting together but now they seldom do mylot..as they are very much busy with their work..and i have no work except to spare whole day in mylot...but i'm happy to doing mylotting..especially when i get response from your side...
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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24 Mar 10
hell0 my new MyLot friend :)
well, siliguri, I also know some people here who are from my country, but we are actually not that close. I am more close with some other members- one from Italy and one from Spain, and hope to become a very good friend with them
thanks for your support
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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26 Mar 10
Spain!? I don't know what are you talking about Adalie
and who's that guy from Bulgaria? Do i know him?
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
hello phoenix,
I had few friends here whom i can call friends in the real sense.
Thou we've never known each other so well,never met in person,but i can say,i've known them by heart.
We shares personal info and chat sometimes,seen each other thru cam.
I can say,at least more or less 10 closest friend i can count on that i've known so well.
I also had 3 brothers from different part of the globe,thu,we don't chat,but we share feelings here in mylot.
I hope to know more friends here and have close friendship with them too
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
aha..that's true dear.
but,i want to share you my experience with internet friends.
I've met one from India,met him from Orkut,and told me that,his brother's family were living here in my country,and he gave my name and mobile number to his brother,now,we are good,good friends for more than 3 years.
We had a close relationship,i visits them and they visited me too.
I am proud to say that,i met few internet friends,and make real friendship with them in real life...
We will be celebrating our yearly anniversary this coming April...and we all met thru internet
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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24 Mar 10
hell0 Jaiho!
I am really glad that you ave found some good friends here, because this is actually what the social networks are for, but as i told it needs some time to have a good friend on the web, because it is really not that easy as having a friend in the real life( in our daily round)
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
24 Mar 10
hi phoenix,
I made some good friends in here---i never knew them earlier i met them for the first time in Mylot and we share a good rapport i exchanged my emails with those trusted ones .i see them on another social site i use---"How many you feel as your real friends"-----It depends on their behaviour if they aren't serious about my friendship then i try to be the same with them---in other words its like looking themselves in the mirror---it holds good for the good and bad.great day.
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@sunnycool (12714)
• India
24 Mar 10
Just for a change ---it would be easy for us to disctinguish if they're really having us on list for our company or for the sake of our discussion's company ---i really hate those kinda ones
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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24 Mar 10
just a question because it torture me since the weekend- what exactly is "disctinguish", because I can'tfind it in the dictionary :)
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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24 Mar 10
hell0 Sunil! why have you changed your avatar?
yeah, it really depends on that how they treat you and are they really value you friendship or they just think it is nothing more than a conversation or some joke! it is really important to know well the people you meet online in order to accept them as good friends
great day to you too!
@lassielee (134)
• China
24 Mar 10
Actually,I only have 15 friends on mylot.I have to say some friends update their dicussion everyday but others(maybe two or three)hardly update.You know mylotters are come from different conntries because of different time we are hardly online at the same time.so everyday I will check my email to find out who started a new discussion or responsed a discussion.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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24 Mar 10
hell0 Lassielee! yeah, it is really hard to be online at the same time with the most of your friends here on mylot because of the time difference, but at least you and me meet each other often here :)
btw what's the time in your area now? here it is 15:27
@Ramsesxlll (1431)
• Finland
24 Mar 10
I have a few really good myLot friends that are actually real friends for me. You can have "real" friends on the web too...
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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24 Mar 10
hello friend! yes, I know that I can have real friends on the web too, but it really needs some time to know these people better and to be sure that they are real and not some fake ones. I am really happy for you, that you have found some good friends here
@Ramsesxlll (1431)
• Finland
24 Mar 10
I agree :D
And I am happy too for having found good friends :D
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
25 Mar 10
I have met many friends here for the 4 years I have been with mylot. But I have only a few that I can call my 'real friends' and those are friends that who never fail to support my discussions and reading their writes everyday somehow create a special kind of connections that I can roughly know their real personalities. The internet has brought the unknown to the unknown and that leads to real friendships. Few are chatting with me outside mylot too.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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25 Mar 10
hi! well, it is really great that you have met people like these and I can only hope that I have the same opportunity and meet some really nice people, who will become my good friends and i will even call them "real" :)
@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
24 Mar 10
beh as regards mylot in reality i nver met a person that i knew here on this community also because the majority coming from countries which are very far from mine so i think in many cases it would impossible to meet them personally!!as regards other communities ..it happened to me to meet somebody personally but you knwo sometimes you stay friend for a period and afterthat quit may be because we have different time or life too!!
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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25 Mar 10
yeah, sometimes it is difficult to keep the friendship alive with someone who lives far away from you and doesn't really know you that well!
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
i dont know them personally, i just added them here. i avoid inviting my personal friends here coz sometimes i post too personal topic here specially about my personal problem and i dont want them to just drag it to other people. though of course in my yahoo and msn i only have friends and family in my list and no outsider.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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25 Mar 10
yeah, i also haven't invite my real friends because of the same reason, and I feel more free to share here, because the people here don't actually know me!
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
None here in myLot. I don't have any real life friends here. I joined myLot on my own and real friends I invited doesn't join yet. But no worries for me as majority of myLotters are all friendly and are willing to give their views about certain topics. And I seldom see a rude answers too. One can judged a good site by simply readings its one's members post.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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25 Mar 10
yeah, I also don't have any good friends here but I am already close with some of the members and hope wwe will become good friends soon!
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
I have lots of friends and even downline in mylot. Some are active and some are not.
I think I can't say that they are my social friends for I don't even know their faces and some their true name.
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I think being social yes. Being friendly yes.
But having a true friend in this kind of environment is for me not possible. Unless you really meet your perfect match. But sometimes we are a great pretender if we are in cyberspace. We portray our self as some else that we want to be.
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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25 Mar 10
hell0 there!
well, i also have some downlines here and also some are active and the most are not, but with some of them I am still in good relationship, well I can't say that we are already good friends, but they behave well with me and I behave well with them too!
@machivado (528)
• Indonesia
24 Mar 10
It's a bit embarassing but I don't have any real friends or offline friends here in MyLot. I don't invite my friends to join MyLot, they just too busy playing online games, so there is no need to bother them.
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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24 Mar 10
hell0! well, it is not bad, but maybe you should try to be a friend here with someone, because this is actually the purpose of the social networks, isn't it? I think that when your friends join the site, they will forget about these games :)
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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26 Mar 10
yeah, mylot is really something much more different and I also like my new online friends that I have met here!
@tylerscotthess (129)
• United States
24 Mar 10
well so far I sadly only have one friend on here, I wish I had more, but I am really, really, really, really close with my one friend :)
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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24 Mar 10
well, there is nothing, nothing, nothing wrong with it
it is really nice that you have one friend, who is really close to you and that you really like him/her! i also wish to have such a close friend here!
@phoenix8606 (4942)
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24 Mar 10
yeah, you must really have a lot of good friends here, and maybe when I get my 13 000 posts here I will also have many
it really needs time to find some good friends on the web, and I hope to find them!
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
24 Mar 10
I have one friend that I knew before My Lot who is now a member. Actually she is the one that got me to join! I don't really consider anyone else on here as a "real friend" because I think you need to meet someone to truly be their friend. I love My Lot, and everyone has been very nice so far. It seems kind of snobish to say I don't consider them my friends, but like I said I think you need to meet people. You really don't know if the people on the internet are telling the truth about themselves unless you meet them and have a relationship in person.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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24 Mar 10
hell0! yeah, I am also close with some of my referrals but the most of them are not active at all and I am in contact with them outside mylot. till now I don't feel anybody that close so that I can call him/her a good friend!
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
24 Mar 10
I know 2 myLot friends whom I meet everyday, they are working in the same company where I work. They are such a good friends, I got to know about mylot from one off my friend and now enjoying discussions here.
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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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24 Mar 10
well, it is really nice to have some colleagues here, because you know each other well and also support each other. I think it is really good!