how will you get along with the person you don't like but is your roommate?

Philippines
March 24, 2010 12:53pm CST
Hey there, I actually have this situation right now and me and my roomamate didn't really talk a lot. we are three in the room but I don't talk much around her after she started a rumor to me. I didn't like her now but I already forgave her.
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@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
I don't think I could, so I'll just move out if I were in the situation. But moving out isn't easy, so I 'll give this a shot - talk to her and ask her why she did that, and then tell her to never do it again. I don't mind people spreading stories about me so long as they're true, and unbiased. But if she's just trying to make me look bad , then that's another story. It's all about the intention. But you said it's "rumor", so the connotation there is negative. Anyway good luck to you in fixing your relationship with your roommate!
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
Its a rumor and its not true. And she didn't even have to spread it because there's nothing wrong if its true. What had hurt me is why she talked at my back even if she is my room mate.If only I could really move out.
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
try to confront her about it, and tell her to stop. that's the only thing you can do as of now until time comes when you can move out.
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
i dont like that kind of situation, maybe i will request to transfer to another room as where i can have a peace of mind. or whoever come first. like if i go first then perhaps i will tell my ladlord about it so they can do something that maybe transfer her or me to other room.
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
I can;t move out though because soon I'll graduate and I'll just waste my time if I did. If only I live in a dormitory I'd do that :)