how many times you can give a chance to your love one?

You can actually give as many chances as you want but the tendency is even if you are giving all the chances, there's a tendency that you wont trust your partner anymore. I think its frustrating to have the same problems over and over again. I think its not healthy also. Its good to give chances but a compromise should also be made.

i can give my partner a chance as long i still love him. if i dont love him anymore then there is no chance for anything.

You are absolutely right! We pardon ourselves for infinite mistakes. Then why can't we pardon our love for just few mistakes? After all she is my better half. How can I forgive my one half and punish the other?

I can give chances as much as I can as long as he is sincere in begging forgiveness. But if he'll do mistakes again and again and when it is too much, i don't think that i could give chance.

For me ones only but Jehovah God said you must forgive seven seven times.

As long as there is still love between the two of us -- then "giving chances" is not a question. Sometimes we just become clouded -- just because we love the person too much that we are unable to see that the other person might not love us anymore hence the reason for committing mistakes or cheating on us.

Hello xoxo_marie, I've always believe in the saying "Everybody deserves a second chance" so I think I can give my love one until second chance only. If he commits the same mistake twice I would end the relationship. Good thing after four mistakes your boyfriend is trying now to make your relationship work. I do hope he will not commit the same mistake again. In my case, I bend my rule, that I will give until second chance only, with my first boyfriend. I really love him, and accepted him for the nth time. I don't regret those times because every time we are together again, every thing is getting better, but I think we are just not meant to be with each other because we didn't end up together. I wish you well. Take care

HI xoxo, i dont know what to say, but if he keeps on committing those mistakes you better think twice or thrice

Hi marie, Welcome to MyLot.Good question. Before giving a second chance,I'd rather like to make the person realize the cost of a mistake and that having another chance is not that easy.The lesson is that you've to pay if you've mistaken.A real tough call!! Happy MyLotting!!

I give chances to girls who I really love. I know it's stupid to do that when you see that person failing your trust over and over again but love is blind, right. Sometimes we have to learn when to walk away as well, even though it may hurt like hell. You generally learn MORE from BAD relationships on how to act than in good ones. Think about it.. :)

Hi, could you tell us what mistakes he did? i think it's important the detail of mistakes in your relationship.

honestly, been in a relationship for 4 years now... and still getting stronger. w/ god guidance.. we never had any arguments or major fights... i never experience in my relationship reaching to this point giving chances.. and im very bless are words meet almost all the time.. a simple gesture we can definitely detect that we have something or things not agree upon.. but for me.. every person deserve a chance it depends the worth.. communication is really important.. we tend to assume that are partners know how we feel but its not.. he/she may think its ok but not ok for you.. the best advise before you say goodnight - talk- a simple conversation... it helps. but if you feel its not worth dying for.. or he/she doesn't deserves its instinct.. think you are the only person know all along. you make ask a friend for an advise.. but still you will make decisions. don't make others decide it for you. you may regret it.