Do you find it hard to talk to others?

@Java09 (3075)
United States
March 25, 2010 7:27am CST
When you talk to people,do you ever just don't know what to say.Do you ever wonder what they think of you.Are you ever confused of what to say or do next?I try to make a conversation.But sometimes I just run out of things to say.
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@lindsiko (355)
• United States
26 Mar 10
Yes! I tend to be a very socially awkward person if it's someone I don't know or haven't seen in a really long time. I can't help it. I just feel out of place or like I'm onstage. It's funny because a lot of the time there's no reason for me to feel so anxious and tight lipped, I just worry about saying the wrong thing.
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
not only hard but incredibly hard. There wasnt a pill for this I always think. Here at internet im more frank and once i played crap words with my opponent in a game and i typed and told him, "your a pathetic loser". hes wondering why his time ran out even when it was his own fault and to contribute my part i sent him those words.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
25 Mar 10
I have no problem to have a conversation with known or unknown people, and i never worry about what anyone thinks about me. I can communicate easily, even I find easy a subject to talk about if conversation can't be carried by someone else, I"ll trying to give courage to those like you who have trouble speaking. Maybe that was developed by me over the years when I worked as a teacher.
@mac_fish (723)
• China
25 Mar 10
Why?? Was MichealJackosn still alive????
@unique16 (1531)
• United States
25 Mar 10
HI Java09 Yes, Big time especailly with there a party with Co-workers and Big Luncheon with them too. There are always seem to be the ones that talk alot and have something to say all the time and others that hardly speak at all and just listen (that me!) I tend to only have a 3 close close friends and I guess the rest I feel they do not know about me or how think etc... Yes, it is uncomfortable at times. I seem to easier when my children are around to talk more. Sometimes I say things that I read on the internet and I quote it wrong oh boy do people know when you miss quote... I do not like that about myself because I feel I have to fill void of silence and when maybe it is better just to be quite and enjoy peaceulness of it. Thanks and have a great day Sincerley Unique16
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
Yah I'm also the same also,,, I really run out of things to say when I talk to someone that I just met newly met...Sometimes I don't know if they already annoyed of what I am saying I really don't know what they think about me,, I also feel a little embarrassed if Im the only one who talk a lot...and they just listen and smile to me
@binagupta (627)
• India
25 Mar 10
Hello friend i just feel harder to talk to a unknown person not to the known one
@arakawaii (270)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
Yup, almost of the time, I don't know why but some people say I am snob because I don't talk a lot specially to strangers... But honestly I am the type who would really want to make many friends, its just that I don't know how to talk to them or even initiate a conversation with people.