Do you think you are "Fit" for this World???

hello dear bhai, Now i understand why you did not try to contact me when you were in my country. You always try to a distant and enveloped your feelings. I remember you replied to my discussion that,you were bring to get used of hiding your emotion. Now,i tell you dear,you feel misfit for this world,becoz you are confined thinking about it. Everything you wrote here is not about complaining,but,you tried to express your feelings and emotions. You never hesitate to outburst what's inside of you,you never mind if you ever offended other(i am one) Yes,i felt offended with what you wrote about mylot friends. It is true that,we never knew who we can call true friends here,this is internet. But,i assure you my dear brother,when i call you brother,it means the real sense of the world(this is for me,i don't know about you) That is why,when you said you are coming here in my country,i was expecting to see you in person. At least,you could feel the real brother-sister relationship that i want to build between us. I felt so emotional here,sadly,no...i understand about you my brother(at least,i will always try to understand you) No matter what,i stay as your virtual didi,and wish to make you feel the real sense of the word. With regards to your question,yes,i fit in this world. I love what i am doing,i love helping people,i never get tired reaching out the needy,the orphans,the sick and the troubled ones. I had my own problems,but i can say,i am still lucky compared to others. Look around us,see those street children,homeless,the beggars,people dying for starvation,abandoned kids and so on. I am not rich,but more lucky than they are. And,i always do my best to be a useful citizen in my country and live my life with God above the rest. Have a nice day always my dear bhai

i think the man who love the life is the man who is fit for the society

Well you ve just opened your eyes. welcome to the real world. now you ve seen it, take time and reflect over the things you ve done. all of us aren t saints but you are right, there are those who act like one. and often times they re the devils of this world.

As Darwin said "Survival for the fittest". Existence of everyone is the proof of fitness. Without fitness on one can survive. We are here that is enough that we are surviving. So there is no chance of being unfitted for this world. And struggle of existence determined the nature of living being. In that struggle the nature is varied. I want to place a example here. Mother love their child very must. Even said that mother love their child than their own life. It is normal nature. But in practical filled it is proved that if a mother sink in water with her child... at the initial stage mother try to save her child. But in final stage when she fails to save her child and both are sinking then she try to save her life even pressing her child down to the water. Every one has the right to exist. And in the race of existence what is done by living being can't be said as act of selfishness. Like the love and war every thing is fare in the race of struggle for existence. All our nature are in the slave of the situation. We the living being act according to situation. And our final and utmost priority is to self. And selfishness is the basic nature of living being. Till then we do for other, when we are not in trouble. But when we are in trouble then we have no hesitation to do harm to other for the sake of security of self. This can't be considered as selfishness.

Wow, I never really looked at it that way. It's quite deep, but you Have got a point. We say "Hi" to the ones that could help us furtherly, but not really for being friendly, except when you see them outdoors. Eventually on MyLot I don't add people as friends, cause I knew I wouldn't say much against them, we might have one thing in common, the humor. There probably also are other people like you, that are thinking about this. But well if we let the others do, and change the environment we are in for ourselves, let's say that is enough for me. The whole world doesn't need to change for me, as long as I can fit myself into it. You can't adapt yourself 24/7, than you're not..YOU anymore, it's better to only have "friends" on these sites, where you are sure that they want to talk to you more than only having a "friend status" Maybe you didn't really expect a reply on it, but here you have it.

i think that people should be more decent

True. We got to be independent but it has become impossible in the world.That why the feelings comes in our mind whether we are fit for this world. I am not fit to live in this world. My wife used use this word often " You are not fit to live in the world". I will do what good thing I should do and I will not mind what others say about me. In anybody's family what you say is happening.Son gives money to the parents with the instruction that the money should not go to his sister.The freedom of parents is denied there. The son does not think that he is indebted to his parents for his position to-day.You can not trust anybody for that matter.