I have reached a new MyLot status! I have a stalker! lol

@BethTN81 (564)
United States
March 25, 2010 1:46pm CST
It is amazing that some people have nothing else better to do than to follow people around on MyLot and make idots of themselves and bash total strangers by jumping to conclusions, make stupid assumptions and feel they can "scare" people away from a message board. It just tells me they have some real insecurities in life and feel they are special by trying to be big and bad on the internet. So sad. But amusing. And to those who are trying to figure out who the "stalker" is....I had there posts deleted. No need for anyone to harrass them too. Two wrongs don't make a right.
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• United States
25 Mar 10
On one hand, I see why you posted this and I'm sure that would get a little annoying and problematic. On the other hand, I'd have to agree in saying this discussion opens up invitation for that individual to defend themselves. I would've had their posts deleted and kept it at that, but to each their own. You did good by having the posts deleted though. Happy mylotting!
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@BethTN81 (564)
• United States
25 Mar 10
Hey, I am on here right now to relieve stress, and if I want to post things like this to relieve stress then I have the right. Might be childish in many ways but ya know. I am not attacking anyone by calling their name. Just seeing if they are stupid enough to comment on this post. So far they have not. Maybe they are smarter than I gave them credit.
@BethTN81 (564)
• United States
28 Mar 10
Sorry, didnt mean to come off so rude. That was not my intention. I have actually been reading some other topics and discussions and got quite tickled. Not at anyone inparticular but I really find it hilarious that some people try their hardest to think they have a high status on MyLot. Unless they own this site and have the ability to control what people say then they might just need to post their point of view and let that be it. If someone disagrees with them then oh well. Some people feel they are of a high status on here and think they can run over others because they have been around for a while. I have never had any issue with anyone on MyLot until this week and it is absolutely hilarious what some people say. Someone deleted a post of mine and some others got upset with me because I will not disclose information for the world to see without exposing innocent people. This is the internet. I am cautious. If they REALLY want to know more about a post they made then they can send me a message and I will give it to them and only them. Not post if for everyone. Mainly because I am directly linked to one of the people mentioned. No offense to any MyLotters out there but some of yall may not be too stable in the head and I dont need real life stalkers!
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• United States
27 Mar 10
Woah, I didn't mean any ill intentions with my response. I understand the need to relieve stress. I didn't say that you were attacking anyone either. Try and have a better day.
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• United States
25 Mar 10
You may have deleted their posts...but by starting this discussion...it seems like you have given them an open invitation to cross paths with you again. I didn't see the other discussion, but you make it sound as if they were totally out of line. If I were that person and I seen this discussion...I would take the opportunity to defend my actions.
@BethTN81 (564)
• United States
25 Mar 10
Didn't mention names for a reason sweetheart.. But you are right. Let them prove who they are by trying to defend themselves. The problem I have is some people on MyLot disagree with a poster and then twist around their comments to make the poster look ignorant. They then choose to call names, unsult and then make threats to them. I don't get it. Why can't adults play nice?
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@newtalent (1112)
• United States
25 Mar 10
I am with you on this one. By engaging in conversation about the person, the person is still relevant to you and what they have done to you. They still in a sense, have the upper hand. Your still talking about it. Question here is, how do you keep the person from following you if you do not want them to? Not just in this issue but in other posts, as well. I mean, I would not because of this person. But how would this be handled? Just curious. HMMMM? I also agree the person should have a right to defend himself or herself. Well take care and enjoy being on your forum as nothing ever happened.
• United States
25 Mar 10
I didn't ask for a name. I was just replying to this discussion because the title caught my attention. I have read many discussions here. And I have seen some that I thought had crossed the imaginary line, and had went to far.. I don't believe that anyone should be subject to what you have mentioned.
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• Canada
26 Mar 10
I thought you had the discussion (about the cop) deleted yourself. And also thought that since you just said you had their comments deleted, that you were confirming that, but now I am confused. I would have preferred the discussion stayed up to prove how wrong some people can be in calling other's childish names without having the decency to finally admit their mistake and apologize. So, I DID NOT report the discussion and was shocked when it disappeared.
@BethTN81 (564)
• United States
26 Mar 10
Annie, I have had ONE other discussion of mine deleted a long time back. I can't remember the exact topic but it was on abortion and it was one of those "What are your views" topics where I didnt give an opinion at that point and someone deleted it. It wasnt offensive nor did it violate the policies. Some people deleted stuff just to be that way I guess. I did have their comments deleted on posts that I responded to and I think one discussion that I started as well. Some of the comments were just to start an insult war I guess. They kept throwing darts trying to get me to respond. It was some 19 or 20 yr old boy.
@BethTN81 (564)
• United States
28 Mar 10
BTW Annie, without going into complete detail of issues frm a few days ago. I wanted to tell YOU that I apologize for some things said. I honeslty had no idea that you may use certain products for legitimate reasons until after I made the hateful comment. No wonder you were offended. Lately I have made a few comments like that with no intention to hurt others. Especially ones I know and I do respect alot on here. The post about the cop was deleted by some goon apparently and if you do want to really continue that conversation I will post it again it a better way lol. If you do want to see information on it I can give you some of it, but please keep in mind that I am a very cautious person when it comes to the internet. I do not post links for certain reasons of my own. I am directly linked to one of the people involved in the topic that was deleted, and dont think that I think you are a nutjob or the others that posted are but I dont want to expose certain personal things about myself....like where I live. After thinking about the topic I posted it would be nice to have a few points of view too.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
25 Mar 10
congratulations (I think)
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