When An Avid Suitor Is Yunger / myLot

Philippines

March 25, 2010 7:18pm CST

I know someone who's avid suitor than her.She's a widow with three children. Unfortunately, this suitor is younger than her. That guy is also comfortable with her children. But she's afraid he might change if he meet someone his age...If you are that widow, will you accept him? What are the things she needs to consider before making a decision aside from the age gap?

3 responses

workingmoms

@workingmoms (195)

• Philippines

3 Apr 10

Well, it is not easy to decide with her situation. It will be a lot easier if she is single however she already have kids- these kids are her priorities. Nowadays it is so hard to trust somebody. Maybe what she needs to do is to know him more. Take time, there is no need to be on a rush. Ask for God's guidance in making decision, it will help a lot.

Ynodhady

@Ynodhady (95)

• Indonesia

3 Apr 10

if im a Woman i will accept Him to be Husband but i don't care that about The age Of someone that ready To get married with me. but They must Know who is me. The most Important , he can Accept you and Her children

Chalea Hutchinson

@zoey7879 (3092)

• Quincy, Illinois

28 Mar 10

If she's afraid that he might change, she needs to talk to him, as it sounds as if though she may be a little insecure. I've been with someone who is 12 years younger than myself for 2 years now. Age isn't so much of an issue as is the matter maturity. Based from what you say, I'll assume that he's in his early 20's. Although the matter has never really been discussed between my boyfriend and I, it's pretty much an unspoken rule that we wait until he finishes college before getting more deeply involved.