You had inform your parents before getting love marriage or u will inform them.?

I informed them and I don't know anybody that didn't do it. I'm old enough to can make decisions for my own no matter if they like my decisions or not. Not telling your parents that you're gonna marry seems to me rather unripe and also unrespectful to them. Actually I think that if you have fear to tell that to your parents you're just not ready to get married. Of course, I mean the case when you have contact with your parents. If for some reason you're in a very bad relations and haven't been heard from years, then there's no need to tell them that news.

Am not married yet and will not do so as you need

Well, I haven't got married yet,but I am planning to, and my parents already know:). yes, I care a lot about them, and I wouldn't like them to miss such as important day for me. Besides, I would love to have their company during the ceremony. And finally...if I decided to get married without them knowing it, they would be very mad and sad for sure..he he. I wouldn't do something for them to feel like that!:)

My husband and I both informed our parents that we were getting married. We planned the wedding with my mother in law. We invited almost everyone in our familie too.

Well i want to say on things i have no lover.. so there is no questions of getting love marriage.. but if in future i will face this situations.. then i want to prefer tell my parents about this.. and if they will agree for this.. then i will getting love marriage.. because i know.. my parents doing many things for me.. and on every steps of my life they always supports me.. so i will getting love marriage if my parents allow me for this.. but i know this also they never say no for this.. have a nice day and keep mylotting always..

When you become of age to get married, you do not need parental consent. It is all up the parties if they want their families to know. Most parents try to control their children even in adulthood because they have not come to terms that they are not children anymore. They will not allow them to make decision on their own. Now in the case of arranged marriages as they do still exist then that is a different story. I also believe that you must respect someones cultures, traditions, if you feel comfortable doing so. I got married and with all the drama, I could not take it anymore and divorced. I would not tell anyone again in advance. I think people just get envious and start things when another is happy because they are not happy themselves. If you are genuinely happy then you need to follow your heart no matter what anyone says. But follow it with eyes open.

If two people are of the age of consent then there is no reason why they should inform their parents that they are getting married. I told my parents when I married the first time and my mother immediately took over everything. This time I have not told my family at all, it's none of their business what I do now.

I had a friend who didn't tell his parents that he was getting married, so he his parents didn't know about it till after the wedding. His mother was very upset, because she would have liked to be at the party. I didn't understand my friend, because I wouldn't get married without telling my parents about it. My parents met my husband when we had been dating for a while, and when we celebrated our engagement party my parents and my parents-in-law where there. I was happy to share that day with them They also participated in the wedding party, and I couldn't imagine getting married withou telling them as we have a close relationship.

i guess thats why theres what they called engagement period where the couple will announce themselves to their family and friends about their plan for getting married. it can be a big party or just small one where only family of both couple are present. and during engagement period the couple have the chance to get to know each other more and prepare for their wedding. though theres also some who just go to the civil and get married without informing anyone specially if the girl already live alone as she become more independent to her decision.

I'm not married yet but i'm definitely going to inform my parents when i'm marrying someone. It's just right for my parents to know if i'm marrying someone cuz they raised me up. It's just right that i tell them stuff like that that's going on in my life.

Hi Mine was a arranged marriage that took place in 1988. I don't mind people having love marriage, but thy should inform their parents and make their parents agree to their love marriage. This is my personal view.