i saw she cried lost his boyfriend....i don`t know how to help
By anitarei321
@anitarei321 (548)
Japan
March 26, 2010 5:17am CST
Though i was the one to be cried this weekend cause i decide to leave my BF as a lot my friend comment telling me to do so but my best friend cried all day cause her boyfriend cheating at her and i feel really sorry cause i am the one telling her about her boyfriend same like they had big fighting and ending friendship,i wish i could cry with her i am sad of myself but too sad looking at her, good i don`t get far with my BF i scared and i don`t want to be like her is really hurt.should i ask her going out and forget him that will not help,should i leave her a lone till ready to talk?oh....if i never seen her boyfriend will nothing to do with me oh...oh....oh....i am cry a bit:)
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10 responses
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
It is only right that you show to your bestfriend that she could rely on you in times of her desperate need. Do not mind your other friends comments if they only know the suffering your friend undergo which should be look upon as a serious things and not a funny one. if for them they look upon it as something time and stealers. They should mind their own business after all your the bestfriend and you know well to calm her down than anyone else. don;t give up on her real friends should stick together no matter what happen.
@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
26 Mar 10
i do cried with her all day and i cried of myself but still no help she keep crying i know how much she love him feel wanna kill him by my hand:)
@NoreenNoor (64)
• United Arab Emirates
27 Mar 10
I think you should leave her alone, everything will change with time...
@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
27 Mar 10
i'm sorry you lost your boyfriend. i know it hurts. it is better to find out now than later it isn't right. you should listen to your friend and try to be there for her. he cheated on her and she should be glad it is over. he is not a good boyfriend or someone who really loves her. the best to you both
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
26 Mar 10
The way to solve this problem is to talk with her boy friend and join them together back..
Find out on which way the boy is cheating ur friend and help him out to get normal from that thing, if it was another girl, u could talk to that girl and say about ur friend, so she may get out from these two..
I think leaving alone will never solve out the problem..
Once a girl or boy all in a relationship, it's very hard to get relieve from it..
The only way is to talk to the boy and convince him and join them together again..
@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
26 Mar 10
they already brook up i can`t do nothing to help then watching her crying still:(
@apoljuice1 (730)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Just be with your friend through her times. Make sure she knows that she should not be afraid of anything, that whatever happens you're there with her and that things will work out. Since you were able to leave your boyfriend, and if you think it will work out for her, then you can show her that breaking can help her too. And another advice: I have learned that crying with your friend somehow comforts your friend. Try it and see what happens. Good luck to the both of you!
@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
26 Mar 10
i cried too much last night my eyes still paining now but i fee better think she will be okay too:)
@engrdng06 (248)
• Japan
26 Mar 10
Feel it. If you think there's a need to comfort her right now, then talk to her. If you think she needs to give herself a time to feel the pain and realized what happened, better to talk with her later. I feel so sad for you both.
@haimian (1)
• China
26 Mar 10
oh, this thing do let people sad. i was broken with my BF too, about a week ago,we became stranger each other.i was so sad and cried heavily. it just like one`s heart prinked by needle,so pain. at this moment,i still can not hate or forget him.the most time,i can live happyly,i do not want to see so many people who love me worrying about me.i think i am resposible for their friendly and hotheart.but when i wan alone,i can not help remembering him,then,i always feel so suffering.in fact,i miss him.but i can`t tell him any more.he betrayed me,though i love him so much,i must leave him.he used to be important for me,but never the whole. there are so many other people i should take care such as mum,dad,my friends````
a good girl should not let persons who care her worried
a good girl should love so many people not only herself
so,give her time,time will take all things
i consist that she,i,and all pain_heart girl must be stronger than before
@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
26 Mar 10
yes you right still sun shine tomorrow i am sure so...let be everything fine in time:)
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Just ask her out. Don't talk about the break-up. It's the best way to console her. Make her forget about it by making her do other things other than those that can make her remember what happened.
• India
26 Mar 10
when life steps ahead of you,it is just then you realize your faults,so instead of going much more backward you should try to match up in the race.there is never an end to anything.a day starts and ends irrespective of what you gain !!so why cant we make life follow us????good luck buddy!!!
@crackx (628)
• Belgium
26 Mar 10
It's better to not talk about it the first instance, talking normally helps, but in similar cases it's better to wait as you proposed. Telling to forget a person is impossible, the pain fades away with the time, but still, it's better to leave her alone these instants if you ask me.