Do you think everyone has some good qualities,however bad they are?

I think that it is pretty impossible NOT to have some good qualities, no matter who you are, bad or good. Even the people we may hate the most in this world, even if we just knwo about them as Most Wanted by police or something we hear on TV, unfortunately. Criminals also haev the talent of being able to conjure something up or able to connect with people well, or they are able to think quickly, or they have strong will power, etc.

bullies come in all shape and sizes they can be veraly mean and it hurt's to be bully i know i was all my life because i started wearing thick glasses at the age of 2 so i was always called names like four eyes hoot owl this affected my life alot when they finally made contacts that my parents could afford i got my frist pair on my 13 brithday color my hair blonde and there was a new me i am 53 now and i still will not wear my glasses out in public because some one all ways has something to say behind my back and i hate bullies and it still hurts

Hi pandaeyes, Yes there is good in all people just as there is bad in all of us. I never think of people as good and bad anymore, just that they are different. Circumstances play a big part in what becomes dominant in our character. Blessings.

I think all people start out as good people. They are influenced by other people and by what happens in their lives. Genetics and family make up add to this. And people act on their weaknesses and strengthes as well. Everyone is different and some are worse than others.

Well, thats true everyone has mixed qualities. No one is extremely bad or extremely good to catagorize.. Its a famous saying, in extreme bad, there is little good. So your friend though doesnot mind hurting others weakness,there is a tender heart inside her to feel for the one. Basically its nature of any human being.

yes every person is special and every person have some quality it all depends every person have some different quality it all on you to depend what kind of personality what he have they must recognize it.

I know I was raised to try and believe that there was some good even in the worst type of human. In all honesty when I see all the cruel and inhuman acts perpetrated by man I am convinced that there are truly evil people in the world who do not have a trace of goodness in them.

I have always tried to see the best in a person before making a judgment but it sometimes seems that any good is very well hidden deep inside. I thinkbullies are often deeply troubled and unhappy and they take their unhappiness out on others.

i do think all people have strengths and weaknesses. Many times our weaknesses are because of our strengths. Like independence is a good quality except that you can start acting like you don't need anyone. It can also make it difficult for working as a team. There have been many terrible leaders whose gift was leadership! It all depends on what people do with what they have!

For me I really do believe that everybody has something good in them no matter how they were growing up. There are some who become so rough and all when they are little because they have experienced something they shouldn't. Or some may just have a bad childhood and thus they become mean at one point but eventually out grows it. To each has its own but every has a good side in them no matter how you justify things.

yes i agree with you. every body has some good qualities and there is a need to find them out in each person. i think if you just try to find bad there is nothing scarcity of bad things in any person. but if you are looking for some good qualities even then you will not be disappointed any time from any body. so there is a need to change the perspective.

Yes i agree, maybe they lack attention at home and they feel that way too when she is with other people.She would do something so people will notice her.Although we know that bullying is never a nice way to get attention but maybe because she is too crushed inside that she doesn't know that it is not proper. It just take some people with more patience and more love and or some situations just like you mentioned in your topic that you can actually see that inside they are meek as a lamb.

I agree. Every human has some good qualities. I had a family of bullies I clashed with from kindergarten to sixth grade. I still remember how for some reason I still don't know of, I ended up being on the ground and trying to rise as the older kid had my arms down and his brother was kicking me in the back. From that time onward, it was me against them. I had a couple of fights with him when he picked on someone smaller than him. Around my sixth grade year some gang from another part of town fought his family and their friends. Then they joined together and there was an incident involving me. That's when the family changed and sort of looked out for me. In high school he, the oldest brother, and I were in a math class together and with me being smart, he spread the news that I was very smart. Now he is a model citizen. I've seen other bullies grow to be better persons and friendly towards me, sadly some of them are gone to another world. Although I don't condone bullying, I look back and see them as making me tougher and those experience has helped me to make it without breaking the law because there are bullies at the job who bully you indirectly knowing that you can't do anything because you can get fired. I stand up to them anyway and let them know that I know the law and I won't be bullied.

There is good in every one only if we just give time to question why the person is acting harshly. Most bullies are just really afraid of themselves. Afraid that they will be seen inferior -- afraid of the truth, because truth hurts.

I am a primary school teacher. I like to give every child praise and it can be challenging to see much good behavior from a nasty bully. I notice the slightest good thing that has happened like he was sat on his chair sensibly for one minute. Praising that might lead to some decent work and sensible behavior. A bully might be a soft person inside but a hard person outside. He or she might be an unhappy person if they live in a challenging home environment. Verbal attacks might not be well thought out. The person might be a nice person really but is just going through a difficult time in his or her life. It was lovely that the bully organized the get well card.

Hello Pandaeyes, Bullying is all about power and low self esteem. I think everyone has good qulaities. Now if people are not praised for the qualities and praised for the bad qualities etc..then bad quality will win out. Even the handicap people have good qualties and the autism children have good qualties they may be more subtle and harder to see because majority of people only see what on the surface and do not spend quality time with everyone etc... Thanks and have a great day Sincerley Unique16

I really think most bullies are decent enough people when they are "off the clock". They really have no reason to bully people when no one is around. The reason for this is being most bullies want to get attention for whatever reason. Perhaps they have a poor home life, but there could be any number of reasons. Bullies tend to be odd in the sense that they can be a major jerk most of the times, but there are times where you would never know. I do think they are a switch that turns on in many of their minds when they are around a lot of people. Around a crowd, bullies revert to their bullying ways, at least in my experience. I guess they want as many people to know that they are not weak, to bolster their self esteem. So there are reasons why people to this. I think deep down, everyone is decent, even if it does not come out all of the time.

Hi panadaeye, i too believe that guys having bad qualities may have good qualities. It depends on us that whether we consider a specific thing good or bad, for one it may be good and for another it may be bad. for example a guy may say living alone is good in life but at the same time his other friend may say that no i can never live alone and that its bad. It all depends upon our degree of thought and our mindset towards life. A boy may be very good to his male friends but he may hate girls for some or the other reasons. right!!!!

in reality the bullies always turn out good people..many times is just a way to deal with life..especially the teenage years. Then some you create a mask..armor..but really are people like all other..and more often totally change when they grow up..then of course depends on many things..family, aducation, friendships and values!