Do you blame yourself for having done something wrong?

Yes I do blame myself sometimes over the things that I had done wrong. Sometimes when deciding there are two options we choose and if we choose the wrong option the regret will comes out and then we blame ourselves. I believe that is normal and it is normal to forgive yourself too and start again from scratch. I am not blaming myself that serious sometimes I do just laugh at myself sometimes. It depends on the severity of the mistake I had done.

I am a perfectionist, too. And every time I have done something wrong, I don't vocally say "I'm sorry, it's my fault." The thought lingers in me for a very long time, making me feel very bad about myself. And then I have this fear going in my mind that the person is probably already mad at me. I really get completely embarrassed as well. And then I get shivers all over my body; my skin flushes.

I let many fools steal my money and belongings before and I blame myself for it. I feel the dark clouds over my head and I'm not happy with my misfortune. As a rule when I commit a mistake, I do not punish myself but instead gather information about the strange occurrence to know what began everything and what I could have done to reverse it. After that I try to relax and wait until I overcome the hassle.

I'm also a perfectionist and I do blame myself for doing something wrong. However, I would eventually get over it by admitting that I'm a sinner so it's inevitable that I make mistakes. But I would try as far as possible not to make the same kind of mistakes again.

I am exactly like you. If something goes a tiny bit wrong and I can't fix it, for example, a test that I score 99 on, I start to have a bit of a bad day. Sometimes, I really wish I weren't like this, since it makes me depressed a bit too much.

most of us want perfection in everything we love to do.but things really happen at times you can blame yourself for anything you've done wrong but your just human born to make mistakes right? as time pass by,you've learned a lesson from such experience and when the same situation comes along,you'll now how to handle it! don't get hard on yourself too much!!!

Yes, sometimes that happen to me.That's why I really-really carefully in doing anything.If I feel that I will fail, I will leave it ASAP.But if I can't denied it, just take the good side of it.And You will feel different. A failure was the way to succeed, You have to keep that in Your mind.

For me I can't stop blaming my self until that I found that it is enough because I'm pity for me.

yes but not every time. there are number of reasons. yes i just feel when ever i am wrong but not accept each time. as i feel in the society nobody really cares for this if i just accept my mistakes and most of the time i have to face negative problems due to this. so i just avoid to just show whether i committed a mistake.

I always make sure I know what I am doing to avoid mistakes but as human I do minor mistakes but it doesn't hurt anyone but on me..instead of blaming myself, I learn from it. promised not to do it again next time. it's hard to be perfect but as you learn on every mistake you made..I guess you will no longer make mistakes because you aware of the outcome and consequences if you do such things ..like weigh everything first before doing the decession..

I always do wrong things and blame myself for it. But I would like to find some reasons to forgive myself. I think if we quite understand what we did wrong, we need not punish ourselves as we will never make the same fault again.

Its actually pretty simple, if your the one to be blamed with whatever it is that your did then naturally you have to take responsibility.But that doesnt mean everytime something goes wrong you will keep on blaming yourself. Assess the situation and try to think clearly of what happened lastly instead of blaming you should be using your time thinking about how to make it up instead. You wont solve anything if you just blame all the time even if your just blaming yourself ;)

Wrong?! wrong is just simply natural! it's the balance of nature.. if there's RIGHT, there's also WRONG! Blaming oneself isn't the solution at all. Try to think everything all over again and ponder on these words "EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON". Don't be discouraged on something that does not seemed to be your desired output because it's all part of something much better!

Hi there! There's nothing wrong of aiming for perfection, but sometimes humans have the tendency to focus too much on it that makes the perfection imperfect!Mistakes are part of life, and sometimes they are the one that molds us into perfection. So, chill out!Please don't dwell too much on your mistakes..because you might not notice it you're drowning into it already. Instead, make use of those things you wrongly done into something constructive and positive. Learn from your mistakes and live with what you would learn from it.

Hi chenxiaoyue, I think everybody want to be perfect. If possible we do not want to make a mistake. By we are only a human being. As a human being we do mistake at a time or another. Sometimes things are out of our control and we can do nothing about it. Realize this situation, I would not put the blame on myself if I do something wrong. But if I could do better and the things is under my control then I would blame everything on myself. Things like a choices that we need to take and something like that. If we had a choices then that mean we can make a different on a different choice we made. Success or failure is depend on our choice and I usually blame myself if I do make a wrong choice.

Well, if I do something wrong, then it is most likely my fault. Not always, but most of the time, it was an error in judgment on my part. I will try and move on, to learn from my mistakes, but it can be something that is rather difficult to deal with at times. Especially since there are mistakes that stick out in my mind that bury all of the successes I might have had. That can be a big pain and quite the bother. The most important thing is to learn from the mistakes. Do not try and just mindlessly blame yourself. Instead, figure out what precisely had went wrong. Then do your best to not make that mistake again. It is okay to make mistakes. It is not okay to repeat the same mistakes without learning anything. Live and learn and grow from your experiences. Doing something wrong may in the end make you a better person than doing something right. I admit I am not perfect. In fact, I am the furthest thing from that. However, when I make mistakes, I try not to repeat them. Or really mindlessly blame myself, because that solves nothing. At the same time, I cannot just move on. I have to think about what has been done wrong. Then I will learn from the mistakes and pinpoint what I did wrong. Then attempt to not do it again. Live, learn, and grow and life will be much, much, easier.

I try not to take things too seriously but I admit that sometimes, when I do something wrong, I can't help but blaming myself and feeling really bad about it. It has to be a really big thing, though.

Don't be too hard on yourself. Sometimes, I'm like that myself because we wanted things to be perfectly done but things can go out of our control. If I know that I did give the very best I can do on the situation, I just pat myself on the back and simply look forward. At least, I learned a new lesson and the next time, I can work my way around the situation.

Hi, well friend i would say that everyone aims for perfcetion as almost everyone wants to come first in class but thier is always numbers that someone is first and other is second, third and so on........... It is nature, situation and overall luck too as one tries and fails in all sincere efforts and other wins in one chance.

yes of course everybody want to be perfect whatever they do, nope i don't blame myself for having done something wrong .