am i in trouble?......help......

maybe this is the man of the woman who texted you. Maybe she is the wife of some of your customers. Just try to know first. Ignore the message now. If she would keep on texting you better change your number.

how old are you Anita? yeah it's hard to face this kind of challenge in life. I do have such experienced too but he is not that far on my age..just it's hard if you don't have feelings towards that guy where he is giving you things just like sky is the limit..Well, what I did to him is like this, I talked to him privately, sincerely and serious being an adult in a restaurant. I told him, I LIKE YOU VERY MUCH BUT I DON'T THINK SO I LOVE YOU, I AM TELLING YOU THIS STRAIGHT FROM MY HEART WITH HONESTY, I KNOW YOU DON'T LIKE TO HEAR THIS BUT THIS IS THE TRUE FEELINGS I HAVE FOR YOU. We remain good friends and I will never change the way how you know me now but I hope you understand me. I will always remember the good things you did for me and I am lucky you come by in my life..!! after we meet that time, he showed three times just like an ordinary friend chatting about life, his plans then he disappear like smoke and never heard on him again perhaps he goes back to Japan now..Now I am married my life is settled to the person I truly love..Jeff!

For me it is a hard decision but thing to consider the result of everything after all even if your not hurt because you not love him the other side of him if you doing bad in him your the bad too.

I would definately give everythig back. It is terrile that a man that age would hit on you. I am glad that you realize that you do not like him and you have not kissed him. Some people can not take a hint when you sy that you do not love them. I remember my last boyfriend and I broke up because he was verbally and physically abusive towards me. After we broke up he kept on calling my home phone number and my cell phone number. I had to change my numbers as a result. I had to get a restaining order against him. You said he bugs you at work I would tell your boss and have your boss tell the man he is not welcomed in the establishment.

You know what anitarei, I definitely understand the old man why is he feeling that way towards you. I really don't believe in angels but now I think I do, you look like an angel. Your beauty is so astounding. I'm starting to be curious how much more in person. Well in that case, there's no doubt why the old man is beginning to be under the state of obsession on you. Cheer up girl, you have done your part. You tried to refuse to accept the gifts but fortunately he insisted it and it is indeed voluntary. That's the way it is.

You just need to be simple and humble enough to thank him and return the kind of stuff that you want to return. And try to express your feelings to him. That you can just be friends and no more than that anymore.It wont be that hard at all you wont be in trouble at all believe me ;)

It's like this: keep your customers in the club. DO NOT see them outside the club. You tell him straight out that you appreciate his kindness, but he is not your boyfriend. Period. If ya got the nerve to strip, ya got the nerve to tell it like it is.

hi anitarei, Yes,you need to stand tough with this guy. He obviously has some feelings for you. By accepting his gifts, he does think that he has a chance with you which is clear from what you say...he does not. You need to tell him that you like him as a customer but you do not feel the same as he does and that you can no longer accept his gifts. You don't really owe him the gifts back but if it makes you feel better then by all means return them. Tell him that you have a boyfriend and he is getting upset by the gifts.

I am sorry ti say this, but you have a big problem on your hands. If you can give everything back, do it now. Then you tell him straight to leave you alone and to stay away from you. That is all you can do for now. TATA

What a dirty old man!! If you work in a club, there must be bouncers there, so you pick the biggest guy around and have HIM tell that dirty old perv that he's not welcome and he shouldnt bother you anymore or else......!!! If you dont have bouncers, well like someone said, slap him silly and tell him that he's just a pervert and you're not interested. Of course, I hope he doesnt know where you live because that can be dangerous for you now. Next time, make it a point to NOT accept any gifts as theres always an elastic that comes attached to the gifts from men.

You should tell him before hand, and before accepting his gifts. Because he thought you are accepting him as you accepted his gifts. You should tell him clearly that you never want to have any romantic relationship with him except a simple friendship. Nothing beyond that. Now, The best way is to explain to him, or better yet, return his gifts.

Hi anitarei, it's clear that the elderly man wants to be your sugar daddy. If you keep accepting his gifts, you are indirectly telling him you accept him. If that's not your intention, stop receiving his gifts and return whatever he has given you in the past. Hope he gets the hint. Explain to him if need to that you don't have feelings for him and that love cannot be forced.

god! u've learnt your lesson now! don't ever think u will get free lunches in life! if someone does something for u, they also expect u to do something for them. so beware the next time. now try tlking to this guy and giveall his things back to him. pls stay safe! take care!