well its best to be agood listner than to---??
By umit_umit
@umit_umit (1984)
India
March 26, 2010 4:08pm CST
well i have known that its best to be agood listner than to devulge out your views which can turn the tables against you as one cant generalize anything and comment a view!as one may have good for you and you form a wrong view!what you will do in a situation like this?
4 responses
@sylqqmedin (116)
• Bulgaria
26 Mar 10
When I was a student,I was a good listener.Many of my fellow students used to share with me their problems and asking for any solutions.I wasn't more experienced than them but I was just a good listener.Before I changed my mind,I wanted to become a psychologist.
@sylqqmedin (116)
• Bulgaria
26 Mar 10
Before I changed my mind,I had wanted to become a psychologist.
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
26 Mar 10
its very true once you are agood listner,you put all inside!the real!and you remain full!happy lotting friend
@buccha (59)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
Being a listener has its good and bad side but it all depends on the person, person like me love to listen and try to give your best opinion after the conversation, most people tend to disrupt a conversation even if its not finish and give their conclusion instantly without even thinking if what they say is right or wrong.
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
4 Apr 10
true some are like this only they intrerupt in between only without even listening to the conversation!
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
i would clear the view for the listener if ever i said something that cant be understood by the listener.
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
26 Mar 10
true,I agree with you!its better to clear the view,if really the listner wants it to be!
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
Being a good listener is not a very easy thing to do cause when you listen you just dont listen to what is being said but also to what is meant. You listen with your heart and you also listen with your ears. Sometimes I think its better to just listen than give your opinion about what the person is telling you especially if the person is having some problems.
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
3 Apr 10
true when you listen only its your own heart wants to devulge out the things!and keep on listening is very difficult?
