If your parents always quarrell ?
By yourkl
@yourkl (583)
China
6 responses
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
27 Mar 10
yes its bad when parents quarell. it effects kids mostly and will affect their future. parents must always remeber not to show thier pent up feelings before kids. Any misunderstanding between them must be resolved amongst themselves in privacy. A romantic kiss or maintianing silence will cure most misunderstanding and help maintain family harmony
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
27 Mar 10
Sorry to hear that your parents are always quarreling. It is not good to quarrel in front of the children as it will create a kind of unpleasant habit to the children in future. I have this experience when I used to argue with my other half infront of the kids and now they are already grown up I noticed that they have this kind of weird character in them, a little anti social and always keeping to themselves. They get provoked easily too.
@autumndreamer (3185)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
I hate it too, my parents always quarrel in front of us ever since when I was a kid. They always quarrel about many different things. Growing up, I kind of got used to it now so I'm not having problems about it anymore.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
27 Mar 10
Yes I know what you are talking about. My parents were always having heated arguments. It would scare me and my brothers and sisters so much. I would start to cry and run to my room. Then when it was all over my dad would come in and say he was sorry. I never understood the fighting and why in front of us. It would usually be my mother who would start the fights because she never knew to just let it go. She would have to harp on something like a nag and men just don't want to hear the nagging. Especially after working ten hours a day. Now when I visit them and they start I say ok mr and mrs bickersons please stop or I'm leaving.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
i guess every parents are quarrel with so many things and since i aalready know that its not good or nice that i will just take them as an example so that if ever i get married i will see to it that me and my husband will always have a nice time together and we can avoid any arguments then we see to it of not to make it worst and to make sure that the kids will not see nor hear us having arguments if we can talk privately.
anyway if that happened then i know i cant change them so maybe ill just tell them to just lessen their voice so that the neighbor can't hear them, so maybe that will be a big slap to their face.
@ushen143rolex (34)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
my parents don't quarrel. if they quarrel it means there is something they can't go on with but it makes a relationship healthy. if it occurs too often then there is a wrong part which sometimes painful. truth hurts. if that's the case i'll be sad.