You can say that you know very well somebody , just after his style in writting
By marianna45
@marianna45 (1399)
Romania
March 28, 2010 4:40am CST
Can you say;" this person is my friend, is smart, kind, friendly, fair" just because you like his discussions?
Or you can say about someone that is not very smart, not very friendly, it has some problems, after you interacting with him in Mylot?
Can you know someone, and you can imagine what kind of person he really is only after having read and participate in his discussions , or participate in it yours?
We all use the words " is my friend, is great" or "not like this person is not educated, i hate him".
I wonder,we can or can not be manipulated by someone who knows exactly what people like to listen to, and may in fact these people are not so good ... or so bad.
What do you think about this?
2 people like this
6 responses
@narayan2006 (2954)
• India
28 Mar 10
All persons are not alike in their attitude,perception and way of life. Many aspects of one's personality are revealed through his/her expressions,interactions and manner of analyzing various issues. One's thoughts and behavioral traits takes the shape of communication and expressions that creates varying impressions on many other people around in different ways. It creates vibrations-positive,negative or neutral-spreading across all sections of people. The response/reactions to these vibrations are not same or uniform. It is up to one how does he/she accept it. Thanks.
@marianna45 (1399)
• Romania
28 Mar 10
You are very right, we can t say about somebody who have, or maybe have not some skills in writing, if is a good person or not; we need time, different situations, and why not hard situations to say about somebody if is a good or not.
@lifeafterdeath09 (2043)
• United States
1 Apr 10
i think that it is wrong to judge people. whether you and the person you are having troubles with have a problem or not. you cant just know someone even if you think that you know them and imagine what kind of person they are because everyone is unique in some way. it is better to just let the people be who they are and not try to change them or judge them.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Mar 10
marianna45 I think it depends on what kind of person we are, ourselves how we look at others here from posting to their discussions. if we are a very suspicious type we will not gather too many friends as we will invaribley be finding fault with most any thing people say in their discussions. those who are more forgiving will find a lot of wonderful people here through responding to their discussions and making comments
on their own responses to our own discussions. I do not hate or love quite so easily as some more glib
people, but I can say truthfully I have a lot of wonderful friends here on mylot whom I love, respect and sometimes have fun with.
people, but I can say truthfully I have a lot of wonderful friends here on mylot whom I love, respect and sometimes have fun with.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
style writing is not one of the basis in knowing the person as not all people are good in writing style. i will rather believe if you can just have bond with that people together coz thats the only time you will know who really they are and not through writing, clothing or whatever.
@Andyvil (793)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
I think its hard to judge a person just by his discussions or writing. You can learn a few things from that person based on the way he or she writes but it is impossible for you to really know that person unless you spend a lot of time with him. We all experience different types of emotions. A persons writing may be affected by the mood he is in. I personally think that it will take a very long time for a person to really know someone.
