3 Major things to consider before marrying someone?

Well, first off I would say that Marriage is a social union or legal contract between individuals that creates kinship. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships. Marriage is one of those Big Commitments that requires a great deal of thought. And before we married, we talked about 3 of the most important things to discuss before marriage: money, kids and religion. You need to talk about money, and decide how you plan to divide up the finances. Children are large parts of some people’s lives. Before you get married it is a good idea to know where the other stands in terms of progeny. If you want to have children, but your potential mate has no desire to have even one child, it can become a point of strain on the relationship — unless one or the other of you is willing to compromise. Marriage requires ongoing communication and a degree of flexibility in order to thrive.

3 things: 1. COMPATIBILITY in this word I mean is... your love for each other and how you respect each other to make the relationship work in long terms... 2. TRUST tRUST on partners on both sides.. This will surely get the relationship longer. It is hard to build this kind of thing... 3. FINANCIAL STABILITY How can you get married if you don't have the money to do so? I know that you can get married civilly but what about your future. Ready to have kids? hmmm That's what I think I've never been married...

Hi my lovely IJ! First thing to consider is "how much he loves you?", of course you should feel that he loves you 100%, you are his only one and he will never get tired of loving you. Second is "are you willing to share the rest of your life with him"?, meaning do you accept him for who and what he is? do you accept him despite of his flaws and weaknesses?. Third is "are you ready to be committed with him through thick and thin" with the presence of God? meaning are you ready to take an oath that you will love him and stay with him for the rest of your life no matter what? If these three major things are positive, then go girl, you should marry him immediately. LoL! Have a nice day! Happy myLotting!

Everybody keen on giving many considerations, but i'm a different guy of 21 year old and i have many consideration before marrying my girl.. first thing- Her Physical Structure, because both of us should make love every time, so i want a good Structured lady..i already have one.. second thing- As every one says that, Sense of Humor, i'm a practical man and i like more jokes and i do more jokes .. my friends always say that i have more sense of humor.. Third thing- Internal Character...I'm much concerned about the internal character of the girl, because she should not hurt me and i should not hurt her at any time and she have to understand me and all my internal feelings(I'm not talking about LOVE) means the internal feelings of the heart.. I think i'm HOT....SO there is no questioning i expect a hot girl!!!!!!!

Three thing?..... One Who are you? second whom do you want to marry? (Whom means who is she/he?) Third why you want to marry him/her. This is the three thing to consider before going for marriage. But many other things need to bring under consideration before marriage.

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hi cloud 31 love yes then does he or she love animals,cats and dogs? Does he or she want Children? and three, what does he or she think about handling money? to me I would never have married a man who hated animals and pets, who did not want children, and knew nothing about his or her ability to handle money. these are the points that mess up a lot of marriages so know before hand if you love someone who does not want or even like children or pets, and was either a penny pincher or worse a spend thrift, cause if you do your marriage will be one big catastrophe.

Sweetie. The others you missed. Trust, respect, compassion and a awesome sense of humour. So, IJ, there you have saph's most important list to happiness. Because this is what we need to survive in any relationship or marriage. TATA.

Hello my Cloud,For me Occupation/Profession is a must because how can you support your husband/wife and family to be if your work is not stable.I'm not saying that you can't marry those who have no stable job,but make sure before you get marry you are in a good hands.Second, happiness and security are important too, you can live happy together if this two are present.Third,before you accept her/his proposal make sure that she/he free. By the way Cloud can i ask a question? Are you planning for marriage? Will you marry me? lol..Take Care Always.

hell0 CLoud! well, guess the first things would be is she really the right for me- i mean must rewind the whole relationship we had to see is she really the one for me. the second thing would be like some other have said the sense of humor,because I am a person with a great sense of humor and like girls who have it too. and the third thing is the smile- i just can resist girl with a lovely smile(like yours)

I want someone who doesn't think making love is the only thing in a marriage. I want someone who loves to do a wide variety of things from whitewater rafting to gardening. I want someone who loves to talk about a wide variety of things without his way having to be the last word on the subject.

hi cloud! Are u planning to get married, friend? LOL Well, Before marrying, in our country, at least in arranged marriage, we see following things. 1. Weather boy and girl physics matches.(Too hefty boy /girl may not be a suitable match for too thin girl/boy) 2. Style of living of the two should matching. At least they should be such that both should be able to adjust with each other after marriage. E.g if one is pure veg and one is pure non veg, and if two gets married, they may have disputes very often after marriage and may find difficult to adjust. 3. Nature of individual concerned,(at least broad traits displayed during interactions)and their family background and family history. 4. Education level also seen before deciding about marriage. Happy my Lotting, friend.

I will consider 3 things 1)Beauty-she had to be beautiful as you 2)attitude-and don't behave like warfreak 3)loyalty-she must be loyal even were not together. That's it.All the best

in my own opinion cloud31 there are 3 things or factors that you have to consider before entering in this kind of situation. this is the love, trust and respect. Love is common reason we all know. its the main ingredients trust, you must have trust to each other and the last, respect. every person has her/his own opinion for everything. you have to trust your partner in what ever way.

Good question , cloud. First things first 1.) Finance - Know each others view on making money, earning, savings and spending. See how you are if you have less, how would you cope. 2.) Ask yourself if you want to grow old with this person. See if you can talk about anything under the sun and still respect each other's opinion. see if both of you can accept each others strengths and weaknesses. 3.) certainly, not the last but the most important of all, before indulging into marriage and to save both of you the guilt and embarrassment in the future, ask yourself if you really love the person, ask yourself if you really want to be with the same person for the rest of your life. This is important, if you have the slightest doubt about these, then do not get married. Yes, do not get married if you start to have second thoughts. You have to be very very sure that you want to. I guess that's about it, havea g'day, cloud.

Hello cloud here in my place we go for arranged marriages, means 'arranged by parents',we check many factors Age-the boy should be older than girl Family back ground---this is most important, i am not talking of poor or rich Character----- should be clean, no past history of love affairs Thanks for this post, cheers Prof

First i think you should consider background of whomever it is you want to marry. I know you already love the person but it wont hurt to know more bout him or her, 2 financial capability you just dont just into a decision to marry without knowing if you will be able to make it after the marriage, most marriage fails because of problems regarding financial stability afterwards , so you better settle it first before deciding.Third will be family matters,its always good to check if both parties are good with each other, because when married already both families will be serving as support to the couple. hope it helps you out somehow ;)

before marrying we must learn to know the person's background and know the person's attitude as well

1. Understanding 2. Caring and Loving 3. Good bondage with my mother

just got your discussion while searching around.according to me the most important thing is to have trust.it is what keeps the pair tied even in hard times.the second would attitude.positive attitude is the must.and the last but not the least will be quality of enjoying life with a sense of responsibility. hope you get your dream man with all the qualities you need in him. happy new year and happy my lotting