THE BEST WAY TO FORGET ABOUT HIM/HER....tell me more
By anitarei321
@anitarei321 (548)
Japan
March 28, 2010 11:36am CST
Since he is gone,i am here a lone what i should do right now my mom said...no need to forget just let it past will be gone by self,just don`t think about him make yourself busy,well i am doing it now,treat yourself good like going to SPA or have massage this and that do you have some more idea that i can used to forget about him?
4 responses
@770876 (151)
• Malaysia
28 Mar 10
yes, what you mom said is right, You just find a place in your heart and keep all of him, Then life as you want, I know that is very difficult things at the first, So i think you can temperily to move away the place which you got good memory, And try to do something that you like to do before. Then the tims passed. you will not feel very hurt.
@jenrose930 (119)
• United States
28 Mar 10
My best remedy is to cut yourself off from him for at least 2 weeks. Don't have any communication with him, don't look at his facebook, or write him emails. It's a hard thing to do...but when you're not worrying about trying to talk to him, then you can free yourself up to do more activities. Have a girls night where you just watch movies and hang out. Go sightseeing with some friends. Do anything you can to get your mind off of him.
@mitchann (303)
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
i agree with jenrose.
Aside from what is mentioned above, loose sight of anything that reminds you of him like materials stuffs or avoid places that could remind you of him.Going out with friends. Friends are ultimate anti depressants. And meet other people perhaps when you are ready.
The pain could last as long as you allow it to.
We humans never forget especially experiences associated by pain. But we could always learn to forgive.
Because it is only by forgiving that we able to let go of the past.
@leahmarie33 (75)
• United States
28 Mar 10
I think the best way to get over someone is to have absolutely no contact with them. Erase their phone number, dont talk to them, dont email them, dont facebook them and just move on. Time heals all wounds and this has definitely worked for me in the past. Treating yourself to a day at the spa doesnt hurt either!
