" How To Tell If He is Really Mr. Right"
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
United States
March 28, 2010 7:39pm CST
Thanks Yahoo! I just Read a great article that lists the 5 traits that tell you if your partner is the right one for you. It was geared to women and men who love men but Love is two way street so these traits should be there in women too.
The first one. Does he listen to you? Does he member your best friend's name? Your birthday?
The second,does he connect with you easily? do you communicate with comfort?
The Third,Does he Want the real you? Can you be yourself and not compromise any of your personality?
The Fourth, Is he trustworthy? Do you believe that he has your best interests at heart?
The Fifth and final question, does he enrich your life? Does he inspire you to be your best self?
If you can answer yes to all of these then you have Mr Right in your life. i was amazed to find my guy has all these traits! I'm so lucky! How about you? Does your partner possess these traits?
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@zsazshie143 (77)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
definitely yes.. everything really reflects - the best ever he is.. the moment i saw him i know he is the right guy for me.. and every one does.. he always have something to make me feel damn shivery, fuzzy, chilling feeling that you get when you're in love or infatuated (simply "kilig") -- almost 5 years in this relationship but seems for us everything is very fresh-- seems like we enjoys each others company.. honestly, we never have a major fight.. if he gets jealous then he tell me right away -- and we always laugh about it.. we always say-- human nature-then he make -caress-- ("lambing")- meaning he cares and good thing about it-- it really make your relationship stronger..
@zsazshie143 (77)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
hehehe.. its not love at fight sight.. because we were text mate for 6months.and never see each other before.. but human instinct.. always follow your instinct. i know he is the one...
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
Well that are good pointers you have in there. But there are still other factors that you should consider as well. There are things that go out in the open later when the two of you are already together already which at many times is too late to say that he is indeed Mr. or Ms. Right or Wrong in some cases.
Sometimes when you fall in love with a guy, you are blinded by all of his/her good points but we neglect to see if there is negative about him/her. Love can blind us also too much of it. I do not believe there is really Mr. Right but I can vouch that in each of us there is some Mr./Ms. Wrong lurking or hiding in us. So take good care in knowing if what you got is really your man or woman.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
29 Mar 10
If the respect disappears and the love with it, Mr Right can become Nr Wrong in a heartbeat. Everybody Has faults. Mr. Right or Ms. Right is the person where you know all their faults and you still love and respect them.
Maybe I'll find mine soon.[/i]@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
30 Mar 10
I ask myself this question daily.I hope you find your bliss soon.
@jewels49 (1776)
• United States
29 Mar 10
I'm 5 for 5. so that and a 20 year marriage, that I a happy ,in must mean that he is the right one. There is a security and a contentment that is hard to describe, when you are with the right one. It gives you a sense of strength and the confidence to be your true self, when the guy in your life is one that you know in your soul truly has your back.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
29 Mar 10
I now know Exactly what you mean and you described it Perfectly!
@dimitarivanov (228)
• Netherlands
29 Mar 10
Well, if you have to ask that question in a first place, then maybe he isn't? Think about it.. you have to be sure you really like him and also see yourself with that person and have some future together. If not, then you know the answer...
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
30 Mar 10
I wasn't sitting around asking if my guy fit this questionnaire. I saw the yahoo piece And then was amazed to find He Fits the questionnaire! I agree, you know when you are with the right person. I just found the yahoo piece brilliant.
@mitchann (303)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
I also read that article just now in Yahoo.
It is helpful though. It is more of compatibility, things flow freely. And most importantly the trust. The relationship is doomed if there is no trust in the first place.
And most importantly of course is that you love each other
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
29 Mar 10
i would add it is good if you Like each other. I was a friend to my guy Way before we fell for each other. so that suppoert was already there. Love came afterward!
@autumndreamer (3185)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
Oh my gosh! Then my boyfriend is Mr. Right. 
Thanks for the information. My partner possess these traits. I'm so lucky too.
Thanks for the information. My partner possess these traits. I'm so lucky too.1 person likes this
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
30 Mar 10
communication is a problem, not just with him, but with me too...
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
31 Mar 10
I wish I could tell you how to make communication better. Take Care.
@mikeysmom (2088)
• United States
29 Mar 10
i can honestly say that after answering all of these questions the man that i am in love with is the right man for me. he just has to realize that i am the right woman for him and then all will be right with my world.
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@maanrodriguez (604)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
I'd like to think that there is really no criteria in recognizing that your guy is Mr. Right. you just feel it in the deepest part of your bones. sometimes our Mr. Right defies all notions of the ideal one.
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@uniqueorn (1011)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
Finding Mr. Right is actually a process. It is not the quality of the man but the quality as a couple. He will be Mr. Right if he fills in your imperfections. You will be Ms. Right if you fill in his imperfections. It's a two-way process of helping out each other to be the best that they can be.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
29 Mar 10
Agreed! In a great relationship there is a fit where one picke up where the other leaves off.
@prasenjit3 (112)
• India
29 Mar 10
first time i will thank you .because this is help us to think right way right job example mylot.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
29 Mar 10
All of these actions say I love louder than anything!
