Choosing the best...
By Aryann0916
@Aryann0916 (26)
Philippines
March 28, 2010 9:29pm CST
mylot bloggers... help me! i need to know what is the most important trait or attitude that you prefer when choosing a guy or a gal to be your partner in life.
Is it someone who makes you laugh all the time and when your together you feel like you dont have to worry anything around you? or is it that someone who will love you with all his heart and will do anything just to make you feel secured and be loved? Hope you guys comment on this...
4 responses
@carloadriancanon (206)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
You need to be with somebody who will love you unselfishly. Of course, you need to love him back. Love is about give and take. You give love and you take love!
You don't need someone who would make you laugh all the time because you don't need a clown but a lover. If you and your partner love each other, you'll never only laugh all the time but you'll be happy for the rest of your life.
REMEMBER that laughing is different from being happy.
@scja16 (322)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
I guess you are confuse with your situation. But here is the thing that you need to do, try to listen to your heart...listen carefully...and know who your heart beats for...If you will ask me why i am saying this? it is because we tend to ask who we really love but deep inside we already know the answer. It is our brain who is giving us more thoughts about the situation that makes things complicated. Im not saying that we should not think about the issue though what i meant is when we fall in love...it is our hearts who says and feel that we are inlove.
Because if you will consider the other guy who makes you secure and loves you more. Did he makes you smile? can he make you happy? can you love him more? if not then that will not be fair with the guy, so in the long run it will not be as good as you begin.
So if you want to be happy because love does not mean that we will be happy in the whole process. It means we love someone and we are willing to sacrifice and endure the pain with the person we love until our last day.
God bless
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
for me if i get along with her quite well. bcuz if you re talking about partner for life it s important if you get along well and you re comfortable with the person.