How many times that you hang-out with a stranger guy/woman?
By amyson
@amyson (3498)
Philippines
March 29, 2010 5:08am CST
in my vocabulary i go out with 2 stranger guy before.one guy was my seatmate in the bus the travel took about 6 hours that was very long by bus.he approach me first my first thought was i know he will ask me where il be going and so on and so forth.i have never wrong,the guy ask where il be heading and there are exchanging of communication until i head for my destination.the guy was following me and i don't know why and i said its ok im fine il go now well,he wont stop following and i said what do you want?
he said he just like to know me because he is new in the place he don't know where his going so i help him and i said you can ride a taxi and taxi driver will know your location.he insisted to have a dinner with me i said its ok im going now and he said i' am not doing anything for you.he really talk so nice and i come for him so i said only 30 minutes because my cousin will be waiting for me.then i forgotten the time we were laughing so i said im be going home now.until he drove me home i said im fine but anyway thank you.
he said to me nexttime dont really trust a stranger because its really dangerous to trust easily.i said thank you for reminding and he left im waiting or text on the following day but i haven't get any reply.so i waited and waited but nothing when i trying to call him it was said out of reach.so i guess that my lesson to learn do not trust stranger easy.did you ever experience something like this?
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7 responses
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
30 Mar 10
haha =D So, what's his motive at the end of the day?? Just to prove himself that, he's a charmer?? MAking u believing in him easily and accompanying him for the whole day??
I guess he's more like making use of u, and trying to get into your good looks for the day.. IF not, he wont have disappeared the very next day.. lol =D Luckily that he din managed top do anything to u, or u would have regretted..
It's a lesson, he had for u, a free lesson at your expense though..
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
30 Mar 10
Sometimes I'm approached by random weirdos in public places too, but it's true that you can't trust any stranger, as there are many dangerous people out there, and who knows what can happen. Be careful with people who randomly approaches you, as many of them have bad intentions.
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
30 Mar 10
No, amyson, I have certainly never experienced anything like that, because if a guy I didn't know came up to me like that I would never say "OK" -- period, end of conversation. If he followed me I would say "Stop following me" and if he did not stop following me I would call the police.
It is very dangerous to trust a man who sweet talks you on the street. Although it is said that 12 times as many women are murdered by people they know than by strangers, some of those women met the person they got to know casually, as you describe. Why take a chance? I think it is better to find romance in church or a a sports team where you see and get to know the people before pairing up.
I have never consider bars an appropriate place to meet people either, and know of many cases where people came to harm doing so.
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@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
30 Mar 10
Dear friend,
I had not yet hanged out with any strangers. But several times had spend bit of time with them just short chats not other than that. Moreover hardly I do trust any strangers during the initial talks. But I also do keep in mind that those who are my friends now are once strangers to me.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
29 Mar 10
Hi amyson! The guy was right! You should never trust a stranger!
You should certainly never trust a stranger that you meet on
a bus trip! You could have gotten yourself killed! You never
know what kind of crazy person he might have been! Never go
anywhere with someone that you meet no matter how nice they
seem! Do you know how many women have gotten killed here in
the USA because they did something like that and their bodies
were never found? Please be more careful!
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@dminotaur (134)
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
Well, going out with strangers may not necessarily be all that bad - it's about meeting up new people.
I mean, before your friends became your umm.. friends, they were strangers to you, right? Try to go out there a little, expand your connection chain - it's okay. You never know, the next person might be most dear to you.
And umm -- if you ask me, i've met a LOT of strangers. Through online, in the street, at work, in a bar, etc. :) Well, okay, maybe i'm too friendly. Maybe i should change that. Hrrrm. hehehe.
@cyrus123 (6363)
• United States
30 Mar 10
I never have had this to happen to me. I prefer to get to know a guy well before I go out with him. There is so much meanness going on these days until I think it pays to be careful. I've heard that story before where a girl accepts a ride with a stranger and when he gets her home, he tells her to not be so trusting any more. I tend to be a little too friendly sometimes and I need to be more careful, myself. Kathy.
