thinking to find father for my kids:)

Find the right reasons for marrying someone, don't do it because you feel the 'need' to, but do it because you want to. Why should the kids need someone in the family who couldn't share your love? They could adjust faster if they see that you really care for this guy, otherwise you'd end up divorcing the guy and the kids would be adjusting to a new one and so forth. So, I suggest you get your act together. Be a single mom for now, work hard for those kids and give them a life they deserve, the man in your life would be a bonus for doing good taking care of your kids, I tell you. Don't rush. No one can replace their father. But a good friend could somehow make them know that someone cares for them and for you too. Find friendships, don't find relationships. Relationships find you when you're ready.

hi anita, where do you live sweetie?

If you love that person then you deserve it but don't make it a reason that you would marry him because you need a father to your children but do it because you love the guy. All you need to do is just listen to yourself if you really love the guy then you would keep him forever but if you don't then just keep it away.

Hello anitarei! Actually, it's not strange. You only do the practical way but of course the guy you will marry must be the one that you love because believe me; everything will follow then.

you must be a profound sadness for the Failuer of the past. but u must never give Up as Long as you Live. looking for Husband who can receive you for all the past experiences of you is difficult. i hope u will get a husband who can accept you and your children as well. if someday you can get married with a husband who can accept you and your children. you also must be able to reply for all his Goodness and sincerity with do not commit your unselfish manner and be patience to him hopefully in the Life of you always find success and Happyness

Don't be so hard on yourself. There is still hope for you to fall in love again, just don't stop hoping and praying that a man will finally love you,and be a father to your kids. As for your question if someone will love your kids? Yes, there is. I know someone who married a girl who had a kids and now they are living happily. He treated the children as his own. Just pray hard and don't stop believing!

Hi, anitarei321. It is nice that you want a man that will love you and your kids both. But, if you are not really ready to be with someone right now, don't rush yourself. Take your time to let love find you. Don't ever be so quick to marry the first man that you agree with. Let God lead you into the right path and direction.

It is good that you think about your kids first. But honestly I think you need to find someone that you fall in love with for you first and if they love you, then they would love your children and want to take care of them with you. If you go and just find someone to marry just for your kids that you don't love then it will just end bad you will not be happy, and it will reflect in your daily life and in the long run will probably end up hurting your children more than helping them.