i have a problem with my friend :(

Philippines
March 29, 2010 10:38pm CST
can you help me please on how can i handle or help my friend with his problem. He suddenly broke up with his girlfriend last night and now he is nearly going crazy hurting himself and other people. What will i do to comfort him. He is my bestfriend but i have no enough knowledge in handling this dynamic situations. Every comment is important to me. . thank you very much!
4 responses
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
tell him that he started his life without her girl friend so still he can live his life now that she's gone..
30 Mar 10
In a situation like this all you can do is be there for him, support him when he needs support. His emotions are obviously going to be raw and he needs some time to come to terms with the end of his relationship. Let him know that you are there for him and willing to talk things through with him if, and, when he feels ready to talk.
@grayxenon (1313)
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
the best you can do is give advice..or just be there to listen whenever he wants to talk..sometimes presence alone is more than enough..heartache is such a terrible thing, time can only heal it..
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
hi klein! all you can do for your friend now is just to be his friend. he needs a friend now more than anything else. a friend whom he knows he can talk to and who will listen to his heartaches. make him feel that he's being loved. i think that will give him more comfort. sooner enough he'll recover from the pain and will moved on. cheer him up! and good luck to you. don't worry everything will turn out well. ~ happy mylotting!