21-25 for girls and 28-32 perfect age of get into marriage..?

Hi siliguri, Earlier the same trend was going on but now I think this trend changed tremendously. Now boys are getting married in an early age. Most of them get married before the age of 29. In case of girls, if the girl is pursing her career or giving importance to her career then she is willing to delay the marriage. After the marriage girls may lose freedom to take decision by their own especially on education. But the perfect age for girls is 22-25. If the boy/girl is well settle in an early age then they won’t delay their marriage.

hie siliguri, you hit the nail right on the head. you are right on target. i totally agree with you on the ages of marriage for both the males and females. kudos to you for your understanding and wisdom. i always believe that both the males and females need to be matured and stable before deciding on this big issue of their own marriage and responsibilities. thanks again siliguri.

Like the others I really dont think there is a right age for getting married, I mean you could be 30 and still not ready or 21 and fully ready. My mom got married when she was 29, while I did when I was 24, so I think this would really be dependent on the person getting married.

theres no perfect age to get married, it doesnt matter if they are young or old enough to get married but what matter is if they are already stable in both financial and emotional matter. its not because they married early they will have a bad times nor good times coz its still depends to the couples, same things if they married older. its in the matter of the couples on how they will handle things once they got married and if the money or work they have will be enough to support not only them but also to their up coming kids and give them a good life.

I'm 29 and have no plans on ever getting married...not a big fan.

No, I don't agree my dear and I'll tell U why. When a woman (not a girl) is between the ages of 21-25 marriage IS THE LAST THING ON HER MIND! But, by 28 y/o shes had time to experience a little of LIFE and knows that LIFE isn't worth living w/o someone special & ONLY FOR HER to share it with. Now, there are some women in this world that believe that family & friends are all they need to be happy. This maybe easy to believe from 28 to 50 y/o BUT, after 50 and sometimes much earlier lifestyle an just "LIFE in General" chases up to YOU! U see GOD didn't create man & woman to live as separate entities rather, as two halves coming together to make one whole and that my dear Siliguri WILL NEVER THING!

I feel that if one finds a perfect life partner and both feel that they understand each other well and wish to carry their goals together then there should be no age limit to a perfect one. Yes i agree that in this they should clearly see that their financial positon should be such that they can easily manage life as per their expectations.

I don't think that the right age to get married exists. I think it solely depends on the individual's decisions and up to certain extent to society norms. In most countries it is widely acceptable that a 16-18year old gets married, have children and settle in a family life. If that one wants to achieve in life that's fine for me. In other cultures, woman don't get married prior to 25 years of age because they want to pursue further studies, while in others woman get married at the age of 30, because they want to pursue a profession.

i got married when i was 23 and i think i have enjoyed a lot of my married life now its about 4 years have passed and i am so happy with my married life. i am a male and being a male i need to support financially my family and i have good resources to do so and i want to say if you can afford get married in your early 20's thats the best time for male and female both but if you dont have such financial stability then you can wait some more years. Your given age limit i think the most last stage if you got more late then got more depressive.

I dont agree with you on the ages. I believe its the maturity of the person. Maturity can be reached at different ages. Im 54 and i know males that are older than me that are not mature yet.

Hello! Wow! your getting married I think. For me there is no limit age in marriage as long that you plan it well and possible you have your job already. In my experience the most important things you think before marriage is that, be sure you love one another, opened everything, know your goals in life, know your in-coming in-laws, your religion have a great impact, try to agree where your money goes, like who handle your income or your money. Also think of the where will you live after the wedding. You should agree everything in common so that all things are well planned and arrange. But remember to be a successful in marriage is not only a one of you will work for it, but you work it together.

I say 18. The most happy, and content couples I've ever met, married young. Of course, that takes maturity, which takes good parents. Nevertheless, marrying young tends to lead to good marriages in my experience.

Hi! i agreed with you. it is not about the age to get into a married life. It is about the situation. That is all i can say.. Thanks.. Happy lotting...

There is no perfect age for marriage.It is for you to determine the course of your life. Being finanacially stable supporting your family is a factor of running a family to start with.Of course one must be matured enough to handle family life which is different institution from a bachelor life. For me I got married at age 23 and matured enough to handle responsibility, looking what lies ahead. Evaluating my capability as head of the family, giving financial support, care and love to my wife and children. Giving to them all the best as I can being a good father.

I don't think that there is a specific age where you "should" get married. I think that as long as you are mature enough, understand the seriousness of what marriage is and have found someone that you love and want to spend your life with, and they are in the same mind set maturity wise then that's when you should get married. Weather your 20 or 40. It all depends on if you are really ready or not.

Hey siliguri! I don't think that it actually matters what age someone is when they decide to get married! What matters most is that you are in love and have met the person that you think is right for you and that you want to have that kind of relatioship with! Age is only a number and maturity varies in different people! I wouldn't concentrate on the age so much as I would on getting you life in order and when you feel that you have met "that someone" and feel you are ready for that type of committment you will know if the time is right, no matter what age you are! There is no perfect age for marriage! It is whenever you feel that you are mature enough to take that important step!

Eh well that depends on the person. I got married days before my 22 birthday and looking back from now I sure was not ready for something like that nor did I realize what I was getting myself into.

I'm afraid I don't agree with you. 21 years old is too young for a girl to marry in my opinion, as most of the girls are still studying and haven't found a job to support the marriage. Also, that means assuming that the boy and the girl should have a big age difference, and I strongly believe that age doesn't matter in a relationship

I really don't know the perfect age for marriage. I agree with the age you listed above, but I still confusing whether I am capable of what you said above. I wish that I can start a business to start a family with my love one.

21-25 is good for girls...for the boys it is 27 or 28 from my opinion...Mostly the boys would have settled by that time...and if there age was 30 or 31 then parents from the girls side wont accept due to over age..they might think like that...so 27 or 28 will be the best age for a boy to get married..