what are you going to do to move on if someone so special to you died?

make my self busy in order to try to forget all the memories, but still keep praying for her soul as much as i can. it is not easy to face this, but i believe time will heal the pain.

Moving on is a tough job. However it is a must. People tend to forget things as they pass by. Some may accept the lost in a couple of month but have dificult time that the grieving process is extended. To move on is a natural process of life. It comes in the right time. If that person wants you to be happy back when he's alive then I think it is not impossible to move on in a couple of days. Just pray for him and for all that things may continue as you live your life too.

Moving on is hard and you need time to grief. Keeping yourself occupied with other things might work for the time being, but in the long run there will come a time where you have to sit down and let these feelings wash over you. Staying busy is a way of temporarily not griefing, but you can't keep pushing it away forever. It will eventually tear you up inside. When I had a hard time and lost someone I loved I was advised to spend about 15 minutes every day for grief, and trying to be occupied the other time of the day. This way you are in control of when and how you grief and can still get through the rest of the day. It worked for me, even though I still miss this person on a frequent basis. It just doesn't hurt that bad anymore.

you need to remember he would want you to move on and be happy. know a few have trouble with this too and feel bad. but always remember he would want you to be happy

waa. keep praying. and slowly move on. God has a plan for every each of us. don't lose hope. and be happy always. so that your special someone will not be worried that you are so sad without him :)