How can mend a broken heart?

Broken heart at this time is very difficult - to bare.It is a difficult atmosphere to do anything.Pray for the departed soul and also pray God to give peace and happiness. I know how difficult is this situation is to bare.

don't be so sad cowwee its part of our life. juts think that your father where ever he is right now is happy and he does'nt want you to see like that. you have to accept what happened i now this is the most hardest part, the "acceptance" but this is the only way for you to move on and see that there are still people around you that needed your love.. Don't forget to laugh cowwee this is the best medicine...

take a rest...life sometimes can get pretty bad...appreciate things that is still around you. I am pretty sure no matter how .. your father still lives in your heart... Take care of yourself..live life to the fullest... Will be the best way to show how much you appreciate him.. take care.. hugs.. eddie

For me the best medicine to mend a broken heart is time. Do stuff you normally do daily. Maybe it can help.

Loneliness is a very depressing emotion, but in some point of our lives, we really can't avoid it to happen sometimes. The best thing to enlighten feeling of loneliness is to pray, let God help you, ask Him to guide and lift your emotions. Talk with your family and friends more often and look forward to a brigth future ahead of you, as the lyric of one song goes, there's a sunshine after the rain, it will not rain forever so better wait for the sunshine okay? cheer up and the world will smile back to you.

I know this sounds cliche, but a broken-heart cannot be mend by doing things. Doing activities can distraught you for the time being, but whenever you're at home and alone, that heart-break will always crawl back to you. I'm sorry to hear about your father and I hope that you will eventually find peace within your heart. The only thing that you can possibly do is let time be the remedy to your heartache. Spend as much time with those who are close to you. Find comfort in your memories and hold onto them because your father will always be around. Do remember, although we physically decay, our existence is forever carved into the memories of those we touched along the way of living our lives. You can place your love to your siblings, your mother, your friends, and yourself. Believe me, everyone needs love in this world and you will make a person absolutely blissful if you devote yourself into loving them. Be strong my dear. The road is still unwinding.

mostlty thy say that a heart that has been broken by a man can be mend by a man,... find anothr love,. hmm,..havent enxperienced though..hehehe

Your father is so lucky to have a son/daughter like you. All of us are destined to lose our parents.I know how it feels, and i know you kinda lost half of your being. But i'm sure your parents or your father wants you to move on, cause he is at peace now and he wants you to continue living and not wallowing on something wherein nothing can be done anymore. You can't do anything to hasten the healing process.The heart will heal naturally and all you can do is to accept what is hurting you and realize that there are other people in your realm that needs you. You must help yourself.

Hi cowwee I know you are so sad, I think you should go outside more, breath the fresh air, and look around of you, you will see you still have lucky life. There are a lot of people`s life worse than you. I mean please do not always think about the bad point, everthing has good side and bad side. I suggest you think about good side more. And love you mother, sister and your friends more. I think your father will be happy for you.

Dont feel so bad..just live life as if nothings happened,Dont stick on the memory of the past of your father.Just focus your mind in the present situation you are into.Go and watch the latest movies right now,and have some hot coffe with some friends at the mall.Just enjoy life..Live life to the fullest my dear..Life is too short to be Lonely.

For me,the best way to feel better is to cry. You can cry out loud to your friends,closed ones or just you. When you cry it makes you taste how hurtful the situation is but in the end I know you will understand somehow why the pain is fresh for now...eventhough when you think it is unbreakably heavy to handle you will find yourself surviving... Keep on fighting =)

There are what we call stages of loss: 1.denial 2.anger 3.bargaining 4.depression 5.acceptance The stages vary from person to person depending on how you cope with it. Maybe, your still in denial right now that's why you couldn't move on. Either way, don't force yourself to accept the loss immediately, it takes time. I know what you are going through since I also lost a loved one. Pour out your emotions at one point in time, until you will realize why it happened. And soon you will recover my friend.

Keep yourself busy and you'll find yourself a bit immuned to the pain..I understand the pain is still there..You can heal wounds but not the scars they're leaving..What's important is how well you can handle your emotions so that it won't affect your daily tasks as well.. HAPPY BLOGGING!

give him or her a 500$ check. :))

Well that is simple , you just simply sew it laugh out loud .

do not let this destroy you. have faith that you will be able to go through this soon. seek friends, unwind and go out more with your friends, or perhaps your sibling so you can temporarily and slowly forget how hurt you are. time is your only option. time heals all wounds and i know you will never forget your relationship with your father, not even for a second but you need to live your life now... and stay strong.

Hello Cowwee... I am really sorry for you. I can understand the terrible loss that you're experiencing. I feel like crying, after reading your post. Please don't get into it, a lot! It has happened and there is nothing that anyone can do about it. Don't feel too sad. I know, I know for sure, that it is very tough. But hey, tell me, would your father appreciate it, if you remain unhappy? Wasn't it his wish all the time, that you should become the happiest? What would he feel now, seeing you in this condition? Do not mourn a lot, my friend; your father will feel hurt... It has happened and it can't be reversed now. You have a life to live, which your father have always wanted you to live happily- Don't forget it honey! Do get yourself busy with books, social work, your job etc. These are one's duties towards life, which one can't neglect... Moreover, I assure you, you're not alone. He is there with you, always...

Keep yourself busy. Try to reconnect with old friends that you may have ignored while you were still in a relationship with this person. This what I did, and I was able to move on and find someone who really loves me. Right now, you might feel alone, hurt and angry. But this too shall pass.

I think the only way for you to mend your heart is to accept the fact that your beloved father rested already. Treat it as if hes just resting and moved to a better place. I know its hard because i too lost my father sometime ago but life never ends even if our parents went on already. Move on and enjoy life! im pretty sure he will be happy for you sometime soon too where ever he maybe ;)

your father will forever live in your heart. you don't need to give that love away because that love will always be meant for him. you can still do those things for him. i'm sure he's always watching over you in heaven. don't feel so depressed that he is gone, just think of it as a temporary separation because you can still see him when it is your time to go to heaven. time is the key for your heart to heal. later on, you would realize that things happen for a reason and continue living those dreams you father had hope of you to become. make him proud in heaven.