strip clubs bad for a relationship?

I'm against it actually. Men has less control of themselves than women. But you can let your man go to strip club if he lets you go to (see men strippers) :) That should be fair enough.

I don't think a married man who is happy with his present relationship wants to go to a strip club. I can understand if a teenager goes to a strip club, but I don't see a happily married man there. I will be okay if my husband wants to go there once to see what is happening there, but I will become really mad if he wants to visit the place often. It means he lost interst in me.

It will ruin the intimacy between wife and husband. It is a bad idea. Instead the strip club should be at home...

Absolutely not, will my man be at a strip club. For one thing, there is too much money spent there and I won't have my family's money spent. Not when it is available for free at home. Pursuing interests in other women says one thing to the woman you have left at home - you are not interested in her. I would hear it as "You're not good enough for me." Seems to me that if a man wants something spicier he should give his wife/girlfriend the opportunity to provide it for him. If a man is looking to a variety of different women to satisfy his needs then he should not be in a committed relationship. By committing yourself to one woman you are saying YOU are the only one I want or need. Either stand by her or move on.

I would like to say for a conservative woman,it's a disrespect. But as for liberated women,that's perfectly natural. If you are committed,it would hurt your partner if you would look to someone else intimately. That intimate feeling is something that couples should share and there should be no other parties to avoid quarrels. Why do he need a stripper if he already has a gf? that's an insult. It's like saying you love a girl but your eye's on another girl.

Yes, from my point of view....If a guy loves his girl, he will be very contented to her and to their relationship. Going to a strip club just gives the guy a way to be open to temptations.

It depends on the circumstances. My husband has gone to bachelor parties at strip clubs but, other than that, he never has...during our marriage or his marriage to his late wife. I think it also depends on the individual couple. If the wife is comfortable with her husband going on a regular basis, who am I to judge?

I suppose it depends on the person and how strong their relationship is personally I would have no problem with my partner going to strip clubs and I would prob go with them lol, its all harmless fun if the relationship is strong enough, and both people in the relationship don't mind.

Hi there. I won't allow my partner to visit to that kind of place. Men are actually weak and easily get tempted when it comes to that but i just wished that they must also think of their partners before entering to strip clubs. If they are fond of watching strippers it may only show that they are not satisfied with their partners on what their partner can offer or give to them. They must respect their partner's emotions. Let's turn the table. What if their girlfriend or wife went out with friends and watch the men dancing half naked or let say totally naked ? What would they feel? Insult? Jealous? A big slap on their face? It's the same feeling, right? I guess they should respect and control their selves to temptation in able to survive the relationships that they've been taking care.

My wife and I have these experience in going to strip clubs, but with friends, some times i go there with friends, i just depend on how open you want your relationship to be, a little creativity will go a long way.

I would totally go to a strip club WITH him hahah. But I'm just weird that way. I personally think it's fine for a guy to check out other girls if they're into that. I'm straight and I check them out too. I know they would do it on their own anyway, like check out a girl walking down the street or something. I'd rather be there with him and both check the person out and comment on it instead of him doing it alone.

I think strip clubs only arouses prurient interest. Women must discourage their men from Going there and men should shun it.