Who is much closer to you? your mom or your dad?
By jinjer168
@jinjer168 (1596)
Philippines
March 31, 2010 9:54am CST
Just wanted to know how many will respond and i will see who is much loved, the mommies or the daddies? I'm voting for my mom, she's everything to me. Unfortunately, she passed away 8 years ago but my love for her will surely never die, her memories will be kept and forever be with me no matter what...
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@artofbizniz (43)
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
When I was a child I am more closer to my mom, maybe because my mom has more time to spend with us than my dad. But when I grown up I am much closer to my father maybe because I myself is a boy. We can relate in more things than my mother. He taught how to drive, how to fixed things, and what was life all about. How to be responsible for you and your family.
@jinjer168 (1596)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
That's good to know artofbizniz, your mom and your dad are two people that will stay by your side no matter what. tnx for the reply!
@phyrre (2317)
• United States
31 Mar 10
I'm much closer to my mom than my dad. It's not that I don't love my father, but we've got very different personalities and it's hard for us to really connect on that level because we're so different. I respect him and I know I can go to him for things when I need to and that he's always there, but not in the same way my mother is.
My mother and I are very similar. Probably because she's the one that I spent most of my time with when I was younger, so we get along really well. We talk about just about everything and I can tell her anything that's bothering me and she knows how to make it better. ^_^ We're also into basically the same hobbies and such, so there's lots of things that we can do together and spend time together, which is really nice.
I'm sorry to hear that you lost your mom. I can't imagine going through that and losing someone that close. I've already lost people close to me, but losing my parents would be a whole different story altogether. I'm glad that you keep her memories close, though.
@jinjer168 (1596)
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
thanks a lot phyrre, you made me cry really because of what you've said between me and my nanay (that's what iv'e called her, it means mother in our native language here in the philippines) i am okay now i am happy hearing how close are you with your mom, and so with your dad. Thanks again and God bless...
@cloud31 (5809)
•
31 Mar 10
Both mom and my dad close are to me, in particular matters there are things and situations I have to be more close to my mom especially in ladies kinda of things.And somewhat I have some matters which I have to be deal with my dad and so it depending on the situations.But in my heart they're both close to me.
Happy myLotting
@jinjer168 (1596)
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
Good answer cloud! It should be that way, problem with me is that my dad leaves us when i'm still young so i didn't have the chance to be close to him.