How Do You Search For True Love?
By ajarvaise
@ajarvaise (453)
Philippines
March 31, 2010 12:09pm CST
Have you ever been in love? How do you know you're really in love and not just being prodded to do so and become a couple? Is your relationship influenced by others (your family and friends)? I have been in love a couple of times, but unfortunately until now, I haven't met the right person I can go to the altar with. Some relationships are short, others took years, but in the end, they still do end and I am somewhat cynical now in finding the right one. Whenever I entertained a suitor, sometimes I ask myself... Is he the right one for me? Will the relationship last if I give it a chance? But as the saying goes, "It's better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all," I still try and take a chance in finding the right man for me...:)
5 responses
@maanrodriguez (604)
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
honestly, I dont think you actually search for true love, it finds you when it's the right time. be patient and just enjoy singledom and I promise once love finds you, all the wait will be worth it. 
@ajarvaise (453)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Some even say it will just smack you in the face and there you are...you're in love.
@drshav (205)
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
Its the same question that ive been asking myself. I guess its really hard finding for true love. I had lots of relationship but just like you it all fails. Now im in a relationship again taking risk and hoping hes the one im looking for, hoping hes my true love. I guess i wouldnt know if hes the one if i dont try.
@ajarvaise (453)
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
Yeah, I think learning to love again is an act of bravery that despite all the heart aches and pains of unfulfilled expectations and many failures, we still tend to go ahead and take a chance.
@elizabeth2007 (27)
• China
1 Apr 10
Follow your instincts when you feel happy and safe , the person who is your love !
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
That's how magical love is.. It could happen and change anytime. I believe in destiny and fate. True love comes in the right time, place and person. The least you expect it too. I think that you don't have to search for it. It just comes as natural as it goes.. 
@pwang41 (134)
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
true love comes in your life at the right time. you don't need to go around the world searching for it because it would come even on the moment you least expect it to come. who knows it would be someone you come across the street. all you have to do is wait.
