did you ever faling love to some one that you never met in person yet?
By anitarei321
@anitarei321 (548)
Japan
April 1, 2010 3:46am CST
I do:)2 years a go i met some one in internet when i was playing game in second life.com it was call Glen from New Castle we share talk and often playing game together in the site,feel like too close to him some time and feel like he is my boyfriend as like he feel for me,time goes bye some time just drop word or send huge even kiss,to be together its same will never happen cause different place and life but is same as just leave in a dream still wondering that will be going true,well that was i said that i love him like a friend,close friend,best friend or even lover that i never met yet do you had same story my friend....how is happy when is sad?
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@missingribs09 (56)
• Sweden
1 Apr 10
yes i experienced that also.maybe because we have attachment to the person that emotionally we fall to them.especially if the show care. then sharing thing each others we probably we be closed to them. but this not gurantee that could be the same feeling if you meet personally.sometimes we became so react or responce on they show for to us.i have bad story about that.we just exchanging sms and call untill we plan to meet each other. the guy was so serious and planning about marraige. but i ignore that .when we meet im shocked because my feeling toward him was change.i told i have no feeling to him. he so angry to me very bad....
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@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
1 Apr 10
well because we a part that is same to be nice to have each other and make thing like perfectly in right direction but love not smooth like we hope some time:)
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@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
2 Apr 10
yes, i have crush with one my friend in FB, we never met before. we often talk together in cell in the middle of the night. but i know that is not worth to keep up. i can't make relation in along distance. so i just stop talking with him.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
for me, i would say that i have never fallen in love with someone over the internet. he is someone that i should have faced, someone tangible, someone that i can feel and see in person. it would be hard to develop feelings for someone you're never with. i think attraction will start by seeing a photo etc but that can only be similar to your fascination with artists, singers and actors...
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@lalaine829 (113)
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
personally i think you're in love with the idea of having someone who is acting as a bf now. women are very vulnerable and emotional which some men often take advantage of. i've met loads of people from the net, some were friendly and some were not and some would even cross the line of friendship offering a lot of things just so you would fall for the bait. i have nothing against men but based on experienced on chat, i think love can happen only when you see each other in person. we all know that the net is full of deceit and lies so always be on guard.
@bananamen1 (442)
• Bulgaria
1 Apr 10
Yes I did several times. But I'm not sure if that was a real love. I mean that the feeling was very strong and it seems I'm in love. But then when it was over, I realized that all of the times I had found in the person something that I need and probably my feelings due to that and not so much for the real person that he was.
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@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
It is really true, when some words of caring and love drop into our internet while we are chatting with whom we never meet and preetending as lovers we will fall with them. But it will be remains as dreams otherwise yoou will do it in real. Or both of you had planned about to see each other in person. The reeality is hurting us when the truth revealed. Chatting is something like to be real or just fantsy that remain dreams forewver. I had this experienced.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
2 Apr 10
Yes once in my life i fall in love with a girls.. and interesting things is that i never met her in real.. we can talk only by phone and by chatting on internet.. we like each other.. but after sometime we forget each other.. i don't know.. why this happen.. and i try to talk her many times.. but she never gave me response.. and after that i realize.. that she take me only for her time pass.. so now i am very careful about this.. and don't believe on any net relationship.. have a nice day and keep mylotting always..
@myzire72 (1154)
• Singapore
1 Apr 10
No, although I have many friends online whom I've never met before, I won't fall for any one of them no matter how much I like them. Yes, they can be fun to chat with, but to fall in love with them is another thing. Love in cyberworld is just like the cyberworld itself, if you know what I'm talking about. I will not want to fall in love with anyone whom I've not met in person, in the virtual reality of the cyberworld.
@Michaelyou (182)
• China
2 Apr 10
Hi there,
I got the this kind of experience also.
I have a female friend named zhenzhen who works in different city. We got in touch with each other for over one year and never net in person. Once I took vacation in the city she worked and made lots of photos. Zhenzhen is colleague of my sister's, so after that my sister sent my photo to zhenzhen and wana us make a couple. That mybe sound ridiculous because we are not in the same place and maybe each of us will not change our working place for the other. We becoming a couple, that things may nerver happen! But via internet, Zhenzhen and I chated a lot and I love the girl very much, the way she thinks and the value she desires. We got much in common. I missed her very much and once i got chance I flyed there, however, for some reason I haven't seen her.
Now, we didn't start a relationship for we know we can't stay together.
@assinertata (288)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
I met my husband now almost five years ago online. And we only met in person after 2 years of online relationship, And yes I fell in love with him, even we had not met yet personally.. and same for him. And when we finally met personally, love got even better and stronger and sweeter. We were only together for few weeks, then separated again as he is from different country. But even if we are far from each other, we are doing better with our relationship, and now we are married. Although we are not together yet in one house as I am still processing my papers, I could say that I am very proud and happy i found him..online relationship could become a strong offline relationship, as long as you are honest and you truly love one another.