Is it okay to marry a poor guy?

i think its ok.as they say as long you love him. and i think its ok if he's poor as long also as he is doing his job to gave you a better life. as long as he got good characters that in the end will bring you to financial stability.

It should not matter the class of a person. Money does not grow on trees, and not everyone has the privilege of good money. Money doesn't matter, or atleast it shouldn't. I married my husband but not because of any amount of money had but because of who he is.

your friend is quite right to ponder about that situation... with the crisis we are going through right now... i know it does not matter if the guy is rich or not, money could be earned.. if your friend is ready for the consequences and if she and he loves each other unquestionably, then i suppose they would be rewarded not far in the future..

Well love doesnot see for status, as long the love is true, it doesnot matter for love and life.

So uncontrollable !Every minute ,there are many love stories happened just like Queen and Cinderella in the reality world .A rich girl fall in love with a poor guy ,or a rich boy be in love with a poor girl .But only few couples could gain a happy ending .their parents often disagree their marriage ,and in my opinion ,without parents 'wish ,you won't happy .

Even though money is the main cause to the distruction of most marriages in the U.S. today. Your friend shouldnt be afraid of marrying the person cause they are poor it should be cause they love that person. Cause after all you can love the poor man for who he is but if you marry a rich guy an he loses everything you will not like who he becomes cause in the poor guy you are seeing the real him not a money powder puffed guy that just hands you everything!!

Well it depends. Is he poor because he just has not had the right opportunities yet, or is he poor because he is lazy and refuses to work and better himself? Just because someone is poor does not mean he will always be poor, does he have the potential to do better. I think if he is poor because he chooses to be and does not want to better himself and your friend is very in to material things and needs a certain amount of income to feel stable and this man will never be able to fullfil that for her then a marriage between the two of them can be rough. However, if she does not care and cares more about love then money then it could work out. It really depends on each of the attitudes about the future.

Well, finance is the most topic sensitive in married. MAny married ruins because problems in financial. I guess it is better fir him to make him stable first in finance then they can get married.

Money is not a permanent thing. There is no guarantee that a rich person today will be rich all throughout his life and a poor person will never have money. But being practical one cannot be with a person who has no future. So if your boyfriends is a good person and qualified to have a good future with atleast a good job atleast to survive with basic luxuries in life, then it is fine consideration marrying him. But your friend also has to understant, that since it is her decision to marry him despite knowing his situation, she will also be responsible to help him. Probably even she might have to work so that they both can have a better future and there might be times where they might go through hard times and she will to stay be at his side come what may be.

Absolutely yes. You're going to marry him because you love him. You love him because you see something in him, something that is good and admirable. I guess no one will marry someone who is irresponsible. So deep inside you even though you know that a guy is poor still you know that there is something good about him that makes you fall in love with him.

It's true that money can't buy everything, including love but everything in this world need money...You've to pay even to enter public toilet, am i right? We need money in order to survive so if the marriage just based on love & no financial saving, the marriage won't be last! Even if it's still last, the couple will be fighting with each other every single day because they had no money that they needed which means they won't be happy with the marriage! If the guy love the girl so much, he should be working hard to earn money in order to ensure that they won't have any financial problem in future. Love without money will leads to unhappy marriage but love with marriage will ensure the family are secure in financial & create a happy marriage.