Unconditional Love
By sir_rodner
@sir_rodner (124)
Philippines
April 1, 2010 10:34pm CST
When I was a bachelor, I like to court girls who are beautiful, sexy & talented. Thus I married a girl who is beautiful, sexy and talented. As our married life pass-by, now after being married for a long time, my wife is still beautiful but not anymore sexy but still talented.She's not anymore sexy,her body is now somewhat medium fat. We have been married for 30 years and up to now I still feel that kind of love I have given to her while we are still young.. How about you, do you feel that unconditional love to your partner?
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13 responses
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Well i am sure that you dont look the same way as the day your wife married you... you must ahve had your own fats grown or hidden somewhere? :) but your wife still loves you the same... right! that is wonderful for the both of you. rarely do we see couples still having the same weight of love as when they were so much younger... there is nothing better than a love that is well nourished, unconditional as you call it yourself... it is good for you and your wife. you should keep it up and stay sweet!
i am not married.. and i think i am still in a very good loving stage with my fiance. we are talking about marriage, and is ready to be married... and is already looking forward to the days we will be together. i think that is what we all hope for, right? to have the kind of love that lasts a lifetime...
best wishes!
@sir_rodner (124)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
I hope you get married soon, with the right partner. Just a suggestion, be sure to know the character of your partner to be. Because beauty fades but not the personality. As to my looks, I am better or say good looking today(build,face & personality) than I was younger.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
6 Apr 10
I have only been with my guy for a couple of months but I feel I will love him always. He isn't skinny, neither am I.our weight doesn't matter. we love each other and we are friends too. That's what matters. It is hot and heavy now but I do believe we can Still be in love when the passion fades.
@cocozhi (80)
• China
3 Apr 10
i think that the tolerance and understanding are very important in marriage life ,tolerance and understanding are more important than beautiful ,how Time flies , a man was Handsome when he was young ,an women was beautiful when she was young ,when time pass ,the man maybe not Handsome anymore ,and the women was not beautiful anymore ,the tolerance and understanding can make the life looks beautiful.
@newtalent (1112)
• United States
4 Apr 10
If you have unconditional love then you are not worried about appearances. Congrats on being married that long it is amazing to hear that in itself. Weight can be taken off with a little hard work. Make sure there is not a reason for it, thyroid issues or something. Stress is another factor for weight gain. Back to topic, I do not worry about things if i unconditionally have love for a person , I see the person , not the picture.
@apoljuice1 (730)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
I'm happy that you still love the girl you married 30 years ago. I've been married to my husband for almost 2 years now, and we were together 3 years before that. Things don't always work out, but I had it hardwired into my brain that the man i marry will be the man i'll be with for the rest of my life, and no one else will take his place. I hope that 30 years from now, me and my husband will still be together.
Although a word of advice? You better not let her catch you calling her medium fat like you were talking about a plump chicken! ;-p happy myLotting! :D
@EmilSpasov (152)
• Bulgaria
2 Apr 10
good you got smarter trough the years (just joking)
congratulations - you are lucky to have found the true love which sees not hte figure and the clothes, but the heart and the soul
hope the relationship with my girlfriend turns to be like yours
@smacksman (6053)
•
2 Apr 10
That is the word - unconditional. You and I have been around long enough to realise that is the foundation of a marriage. For the last 40 years my wife and I have overcome all sorts of hurdles and managed to keep going. Neither of us are perfect and we realised that early on in our marriage. Well my wife did. I of course am perfect! haha
Oh yes, and it helps to have a sense of humour.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
2 Apr 10
man better hope your wife dont see this lol..
but yeah i can say me and my wife been married for 25 yrs. and we both gotten bigger since when we first met. but my wife is still as sexy as she was when we first met. as a maried couple we always stood by each other no matter what, through sickness and health richer and poorer.
our love grows stronger each day as we change as life goes by us.
my wife is one of greatest, she stood by me when i had a drinking issue, took care of me when i had my back operation, and as i was trying to heal and deal with my mental illness.
this is what being married is all about, not saying yeah she got fatter, that shouldnt matter you should still love her because who she is and was when you first met, we all change over the years
@machivado (528)
• Indonesia
2 Apr 10
I haven't changed for years...I love girls who are hot, sexy, but most of all beautiful...I'm simply just one of the guys who make appearance as priority...I know I shouldn't be doing that, but what can I do? I always fall down to my knees to beautiful women.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
2 Apr 10
Thats nice to hear dear friend. Me and wife are love married and never gone with the factor of beauty and looks. Even at this age, even i look dark and ugly, she loves me and so as iam. So i never beauty is age defying one, not constant at any cost. So the love is true that lives forever and ever!
@ilive2loveu (33)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Wow! You are a very good guy. An excellent example to what love really is and should be.
Regarding your question, yes!!! very yes I still feel the unconditional love that I have for my partner though at time I feel that I might be stepping up on my own right just to love. Oh well, I'm still young and I'll learn more about love. I used to be a believer in the magic of love- eros love. But there are times when I feel like I want to stop believing. Well, I'm still not married but soon I can prove that unconditional love with God's blessings when I finally say I do.