What will u do if someone slaps u without any solid reason..?
By siliguri
@siliguri (4241)
India
April 2, 2010 1:17am CST
Yeah! it is not possible that someone slaps without any solid reasons...but if someone quarrelling with u for a reasons suddenly he/she slaps u what will be your next reaction...do u give him answer in that way only..or u call the police...talking about me i go with 1st one that i also give the reply in the same manner as he/she does...What about your story...?
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22 responses
@akuler (3531)
• Malaysia
2 Apr 10
Hi siliguri,
If I were slapped by someone without any good reason, I will slap him/her back as a reaction for his/her action. The I will slap him/her again (or punch him/her at his/her face) because slap me without any warning.
But if I am quarreling with someone and then out of sudden he/she slap me, I would definitely shock and do nothing for a few second. If I can control myself, I would him/her on what basis he/she think that I was entitle for that awards. But if I be myself then I would slap him/her back then ask what the hel l he/she doing.
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@marguicha (223874)
• Chile
2 Apr 10
I just canĀ“t imagine that anybody would dare try to slap me!I do not accept a quarrel that goes that way. I think discussions have to be with words and ideas. We are not in the Stone Age!
My answer then is that neither reation would be needed as I would not meddle with people who react that way.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
7 Oct 10
Slapped for no reason is very annoying. But I will not reply, I will ask the reason why slap me. If he does not know why, I would stay away from that person. I do not want to deal with something that is not clear. If there is no clarity, I better go, I do not like, with the noise.
@emerillus (467)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Well! I might be speechless if the person slapping me is my friend or sister and then ask her why she slapped me. If the person who slapped me is my sworn enemy then, well, I'll slap her back, she has no right to slap me or hurt me in anyway. Slapping is just like insulting, and is somewhat degrading, so if i love the person who slapped me, I'll not retaliate, just ask why? and if she is the enemy, I'll strike back.hehehe
@yellowarrior10 (28)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
I think I would slapped him or her back so he would know the consequence of whta he or she did. And then if he or she would ask me why I did that I'm gonna say "That was my muscle reflex".
@EvrWonder (3571)
• Canada
2 Apr 10
If someone slaps me without any solid reason I would probably pursue to charge them with aggravated assault, no questions asked.
Personally, I hardly doubt that I would be in a situation that this would be even possible to occur but I guess anything can happen. I could be in the wrong place at the same time. I would not reply in the same manner, that's for sure, even though I would probably want to.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
2 Apr 10
I also don't think that this situations ever created with me.. but if created.. then i also gave a slapped to that person.. without any questioning.. and not one slapped.. 3-4 slapped immediately.. and after that i ask him/her what was the wrong with me.. so you slapped me.. .. have a nice day and keep mylotting always..
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
2 Apr 10
Well if someone does slap me, my first reaction would be complete shock. I mean, even in the middle of an argument, getting slapped will really be something that will cause you to sit up and blink. Then I would calmly take a step back and tell the person that they better not slap me again. Basically telling them that one was free but if they touch me again I will retaliate.
Hopefully they would have listened to my warning. If not, then they are going to be punched out. No questions asked whatsoever. I'm not a violent person but if someone decides to slap me, I got to take action before they do worse. I mean, they could have pulled a weapon on me for all I know or that might still happen next if the argument gets even more heated. You never know how crazy some people can get when they get angry.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
2 Apr 10
Well at any situation, i will never slap back because i feel its an uncultured act to repeat the same. I will rather report this to police being harsh towards me and violent.
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
2 Apr 10
Just don't understand why should he or she, unless insane or intoxicated, more over if he/she looks at my size he/she can never dare, i can crush right at the spot, no chance of quarreling with me too, i am a cool person, have no enemies
Good discussion, cheers
Prof
@Ramsesxlll (1431)
• Finland
2 Apr 10
I would probably slap back
If it would be a female then I would probably not do anything to her, but if it's a male then I wouldn't slap him, but punch him
Here in Finland it is illegal to physically hurt a person, even if he attacks you first...
@coccodrillina (29)
• Italy
3 Apr 10
It happened me sometimes. Dipends by the situation. I don't like violence but sometimes you need to defend yourself. Every time I was attacked by a man, it was not necessary to call the police, but scream a bit. Generally they run away. If violence is hard, sometimes you don't have time to call the police.
@achilles2010 (3051)
• India
2 Apr 10
In the bible at Mt 5:39 it is written, "But I say unto you, that ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also". However, it is silent about another possibility that if he slaps the other cheek too, then what should you do. I would rather teach him a lesson so that he never slaps anyone again.
This reminds me of a story I read long ago. A bully once slapped a timid man, who was going about his business. The man took out a 50-rupee note and gave it to the bully. The bully was pleased immensely. He went ahead and slapped another. The man this time was not timid. He was a strapping well built man, most probably a wrestler. Bully expected that this time too he would reward him with money, but he gave him a murderous pasting instead. He broke his leg.
The bully thereafter vowed never to slap anyone again. The timid man instead of turning the other cheek had turned the tables on him. I would therefore recommend if someone slaps you on a cheek do not turn the other, but turn the tables on him.
@common_man (1799)
• India
2 Apr 10
Hi friend,
Why anybody will slap without any reason, yaar? If someone does so, he must be mentally unstable needing psychological help, i will take him to Psychologist.
I am from Gujarat, state of Mahatma Gandhi, He has taught us "If some one slap you on one side offer other side to him" That is deep rooted in me, I am a man of Non-violance, i will never slap him back, for sure.Probably, I may leave the site. LOL
@avani26 (1518)
• India
2 Apr 10
Honestly speaking I hate anyone raising his or her hand. I myself am very hot headed person and usually avoid arguments as I can't keep my cool. If someone where to slap me that would be his/her last day on this world as I do not allow even my hubby to raise a finger on him so I really do not care about anyone else.
@apoljuice1 (730)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Well, if this was a friend, or someone I don't know well enough I'd probably yell at him and ask why the hell he slapped me, what was wrong with them? If this was someone I know well enough, i'd probably slap them back, and ask the questions later.
I know it seems out of sync, or the other way around. But if it really were someone I knew well, like a bestfriend,I'd probably slap them back to show them how I feel and how I see what they're doing: I'm their bestfriend or close friend, and they slap me with out telling me why? Then I'd like to see how they'd feel if it happened to them. Then we can talk afterwards!
@bonankdisini (41)
• Indonesia
2 Apr 10
I will slap him without any solid reasons too..Maybe i just got one reason to slap him back.. It's because he slap me first..LOL