Not everyone.. Not necessary....
By Neatteo
@Neatteo (156)
Malaysia
April 2, 2010 2:20am CST
Today I learn something. Not everyone can be trusted. Not necessary we have to help everyone. The situation is like this. I have a best friend. He is a guy. I concern about him. Until one day he have new friend. I still concern about him. He gone too far. He gone beyond the line. He turns and become like someone else. He's not a guy I that I knew before. Before this I never bother if he wants to owe me some dollars. I always lend him my money because I want him to eat. But, right now he is too much. I asked him to pay back the amount of money he owed me. It is because now I don't have money to eat. I message him and he never replied. I called him and he turned off the phone. Now I am totally mad! When he needs money I will help him and now is my time,and he ran away. So, as conclusion here is, don't make it as habit until people will step on you. And don't help people when you cannot even have money for your basic needs.
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2 responses
@akuler (3531)
• Malaysia
2 Apr 10
Hi Neatteo,
It is good to help someone else, more so if they were our friends. It is what friends suppose to do. Help each other when one of them in trouble. That would out friendship become more tight.
Unfortunately, sometimes someone misused the good deed of others any use it to gain for themselves. They will take advantage of their friends kindness and start all sort of sad stories to get some sympathy. It is okey if they can not pay back in time. But they must has a gut to tell us that they can not pay it back due to their own problem. It is a very coward act to run away and forget about your debt.
I lesson I learn from my own experience about money is lean them your money once. If they pay it back on time then you can lend them some more. If they can not do that, just forget about bailing them if they were in trouble because they will cause you more trouble.
It is okey to be nice but make sure our own needs is filled before we give it to others. It is better if we can spare some for miscellaneous purpose. If we have extra extra then we can lend it to our close friends.
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@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
I also had the same problem the previous months and now I am able to refuse to give to anyone who can't even return what I gave them. That's the rule, do not only think of the welfare of other people cause it would hurt you by the time they fail to repay. Give self some importance.
