Im single and i want to change that? help

United States
April 2, 2010 10:07am CST
people always say im ugly and what not but i see guys in my school no better. mye ex says and always give suggestions to change myself and i done just abou everything. i chnaged my weight, hair, face, almost everything. I hate being alone. Please give some advice that would make me look better. any advice is welcome
2 responses
• India
3 Apr 10
Hello, I also suggest you change yourself, but not your appearance. I am asking you to change your point of view. Why do you hate to be alone? This means you are highly attached and weak. Why are you feeling so vulnerable all the time? People say you are ugly and you believe them? Listen to me dear. You really don't have to try so hard. People mess up everything by doing that. Why don't you just be yourself and calm down? Try to accustom yourself with loneliness. This is necessary. This is how you have to be for most of the time even if you have a boyfriend. If you really want to change something about yourself, change your mind. Don't give so much effort in changing your appearance or something which is impermanent. Acquire something that is not perishable. Acquire wisdom and virtue and you will never be alone. Try to elevate yourself to such a height that everybody else wants to follow you, wants to worship you. Now, can you do that to yourself? God bless you
• United States
3 Apr 10
Yes i can!! wow that was an awesome speech which i really needed thanxs alot friend
• India
3 Apr 10
To have a charismatic personality, the first thing you have to do is to be yourself. Just be satisfied in your present situation. Have faith in God. This gonna be your tool in making yourself complete and perfect. We are not fundamentally made perfect. We have to acquire it. Be satisfied with your being single. Be contented with whatever you presently have. Look upon the positive side and always take positive things from people. Don't ignore the negative side. Accept it. But only take the positive side, the more enlightened side. Imitate whatever seems noble and glorious. Don't even think about negative things and don't discuss it with others. Be courageous and virtuous. This world is your playground.
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• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Theres always a right one for us no matter what, now the thing is if you have what it takes to wait for that right one or what, its not that easy to wait for someone special, sometimes they just come unexpected. You just need to be patient and pretty soon someone will come your way ;) Have a nice day ahead of you ;)
• United States
2 Apr 10
thanxs for that. I will wait for that special and maybe she'll turn up soon. thanxs friend