Is this normal?
By fallingfan
@fallingfan (445)
United States
April 2, 2010 10:18am CST
About seven years my mom miscarried a baby. We hadn't known that she was expecting prior to the miscarriage and my youngest sibling at the time was six years old, and besides that my mom was past the "normal" age to give birth. At the time I wasn't really affected by the miscarriage, we all just kind of moved on and acted the same as we would have had my mom had any other kind of health problem. But now, these last couple of years, I've been missing that sibling that I lost. I want to meet him or her. I wonder what life would be like if he or she were around. Am I weird to feel this way when most don't? Are there others who have been in similar situations and feel the way that I do?
2 responses
@fallingfan (445)
• United States
2 Apr 10
Thanks for letting me know that I am normal. And yes, prayer solves a number of things.
@jobmoone (442)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
It is normal my friend. Every member of your family knows that kind of feelings too but things should move on. The best thing to do is to know the things what someone should learn from that kind of situation. know the good and bad side of it.
@fallingfan (445)
• United States
2 Apr 10
Thanks for letting me know that I am normal. Yes, I know that there has to be something I can learn from losing that little one.
