If you think your partner got hurt for what you did, what would you do?

@markmoney (2868)
Philippines
April 2, 2010 10:35am CST
Let’s say you really didn’t intend to hurt your partner, but unfortunately with your action or words, it appeared that your partner got hurt. Are you getting mad of him/her for being hurt unreasonable enough or you are just going to appease him/her and say sorry? How much do you concern for your partner’s feeling? I would be glad to hear from you. Have a nice day! Happy myLotting!
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13 responses
• Philippines
19 Apr 10
I never had that kind of experience. As I evaluate your relationship with your loved one, it is about your differences. If for you your action will not be the source of argument maybe for her it is. Atleast now you know your differences and you learn to compensate for this one. You will learn to understand and respect each other. If I were you, you have to say sorry to her in regard to your action. Girls are sensitive, man you should be understanding. Little by little you will learn to know one another. It is the work of a man to understand the girls manners. And you can say your side in a nice way, do not do the things that makes her hurt.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
4 Apr 10
If I was to unintentionally hurt my partner, I would appologize as soon as I realized what I had done. I think that compromise is important in a relationship and I also think that being able to admit that you are wrong at times is very important as well. I would also definitely hope that the pain that I had caused wouldn't be something that myself and my partner would be unable to overcome as I'd hate to lose a person that I loved over a stupid mistake.
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
3 Apr 10
Yeah, as far as i am concerned, I think if I think my parter got hurt for what I have done, I think I will just apologize to her as soon as possbile, which I think can do a lot help to make her not so angry with me. Then I think I will do a lot thing sto comfort her.
@werty009 (404)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
well the action is not done intentionally but the fact you hurt your partner's feeling you should appease your partner and say sorry cause if you don't your saying something maybe it will lead to breaking up,so say sorry for the sake of the relationship
@renifa12 (104)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
well we are not getting any younger,, if ever i hurt my partner for the things i did then i have to ask forgiveness,, its not hard to say sorry..sorry is the simplest word to say as long as its coming from the deepest part of your heart.
@xasasa (321)
• United States
3 Apr 10
Since I wouldn't like my partner being hurt, I would tell them that I was sorry. I would also find out why it hurt them so that I could prevent hurting them in the future.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
If I really hhurt him i should say sorry and all the apologized must be said. But if i can hurt him with no reason to be hurt I explain to him my side and try to understand him why is that happened. And for sure I will let him know every thing. I don't want him to do actions against me that i am not aware.
@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
hi markmoney, If my partner got hurt with the words I said, I will say sorry and explain my side. It is not a good thing that there is a misunderstanding between lovers because it can result to a more problematic situation. It is much better to talk the problem and never let anyone of you have this bad feelings. I believe that there is no problem that cannot be solve with good conversation. I think it is not good for the guy to do all the talking or for the girl to do the talking when having a conversation. Lovers should have a chance to speak up and no one should deprive that chance.
@Ysabel (1201)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Well Markmoney, i think i just have to say sorry, do things to make my partner feel better and sim[ly move on. As simple as it may seems but really, there's nothing one can do if the other person is hurt but feel sorry, say it, and mean it. sometimes overdoing the sorry will not help and do no good. so just say it sincerely that you're sorry and no need to linger more on it. :)
@1anurag1 (3576)
• India
2 Apr 10
i think if she or he is a partner. there must be an understanding with you. but may be some time she could get hurt. so its simple just throw your ego and use a nice word sorry. i think this is enough if she is really with you. after some argument every thing will be fine
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
2 Apr 10
We are grown up and are suppose to take everything life throws at you, even the hurt caused by a partner. Just say sorry and leave it at that. Nothing more to be done. TATA.
@abirsinha (114)
• India
2 Apr 10
Recently I talked wid some girls and even made plans of going out. When my partner came to know about this i felt really bad.. After that i said sorry 100 times and smooched her and took her out for a cozy dinner.... Thus how i amended things....
• Malaysia
2 Apr 10
Give us time alone to thinking what we have done wrong, when the time is right we say sorry to each other, and say..that this fight is useless let us not do the same mistake to each other anymore. Because deep inside we still love each other.