Who has greater influence in your life mom or dad?
By Naxous
@Naxous (973)
India
April 3, 2010 12:47am CST
In my life I have witnessed several ups and downs and let me accept this that my mom was always beside me in my hour of need.My dad was a bit short tempered and so he wasn't as considerate as my mom.Even today whenever I face a problem I confide in my mom and she gives me a lot of mental support to overcome it.What about you,friends? Who has a bigger influence in your life your mom or dad?Share with us.
12 responses
@netcoder (275)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
its my mother who influence me specially in dreaming for my future. since shes always with us in the house, besides my mother is very understanding and supportive to us. shes my bestfriend actually as i tell her everything what i want in life.
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@Naxous (973)
• India
9 Apr 10
We all need to share every aspect of our life with somebody whom we trust.In times of need we can turn for their help.For some the help comes from friends but for a majority of us I believe it's the family or a particular member of the family who gives you comfort.It's nice to hear that your mom is your best friend and I think that it is the ideal situation.The same is with me.thanks for your response.
@elamel (127)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
yah sometimes i get conflict with their ideas but not all. and they also tell me or guide which ideas i will choice. they both respect others opinions. and they were not that kind of person that will insist what they want. its up to me to decide but they guide me.
@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
4 Apr 10
I can not say that one has had more influence of my life than the other as they both have been a great influence equally. I would not be where I am today without the love and support of my parents. They have done such a great job in taking care of me and helping me grow. Both of them have been there for me through good times and bad times. I feel that I can talk to either one of them when things are going good and when things are not going well. They are the best parents anyone could have or want.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
3 Apr 10
who have the greatest influence in my life is motherhood. mother always tried to make me comfortable, and always encouraging to me. I wanted to reply to all that has been done by my mother. but I still have not been able to realize all. I still often trouble my mother. I am very saddened by this. .
@Naxous (973)
• India
3 Apr 10
There is nothing to feel sorry about friend.In fact you are one of the lucky few who have a considerate mother,someone you can rely upon when you are in a crisis.Indeed all that our parents do for us is really difficult to count and I feel sorry for all those who doesn't remember their parents when they grow old.Are you considerate towards your child the same way as your mother was considerate towards you?
@redheart03 (93)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
for me both of my parents have influenced me. because the both of them are gud in saying an advice that really can help me a lot in my daily life. through them i realized what is y mission here in the world and how can i be a better person :)
@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
3 Apr 10
Hi Naxous! For my life, the person who influence me the most is my mother. She is only a housewife but she has a good thinking and great planner. She can plan a good plan for he life and me too. If I do not hear her advice maybe I am not become someone like who I am now. My father is a great father too but he do not good in planning and sometime I am so angry with his several attitude. However he is still a good and great father for me. He also influence so much in my life. Have a nice day.
@Naxous (973)
• India
3 Apr 10
Friend you are lucky enough to have parents who plans for you while in my case there are instances when my dad interrupted a majority of my plans by just not paying heed to it.He had an attitude like whatever he thinks is right and everything else is wrong.So as you can see that there are people who are not as fortunate as you are.
@1anurag1 (3576)
• India
3 Apr 10
there are number of reasons to get influenced.
and i think i have got influenced by both of them.
my father has a serious kind of nature and mom is jolly. so atleast being jolly i have learned from my mom. and my father is very wise. that i have learned from him
@atv818 (1980)
• United Arab Emirates
3 Apr 10
Although I'm not close with my dad, I think he had the greater influence in me. He has been a very good business eventhough he did finish proper schooling (high school). My mom also influenced me being a housewife and an assistant businesswoman to my dad but I don't see myself as hands-on mom like she currently is.
@siliguri (4241)
• India
3 Apr 10
If is quite difficult to choose among them.....they both support me if i face any problem..your dad has short tempered i have vice -versa my mom is short tempered..because of that i can't say that my dad influence more then my mom..so sorry friend i'm unable to select any one of them...
@jiraiyasanin (642)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
its my mom, it is because she is the one working hard to feed our family unlike my father, dont want to mention it, my mom is great she do everything to help me in my study, she really supports me thats why i admire my mom! i want to bring her to relax place when i finish college!
@Naxous (973)
• India
3 Apr 10
If your will is strong enough then there is no reason why you can't support your mom and give her all the comforts that she deserves.Let me tell you something friend that in today's world it's very difficult to come across a young guy like you who has such high regards for his mom.Wish you all the best in life and thanks for your response.
