They didn't feel shame when they say i have a 4 BF/GF till now..?

I have been married and divorced 3 times, and my last live-in relationship lasted almost 4 years. I don't feel ashamed about it, it happens. My last marriage lasted 16 years, not all of which were bad. I don't think people should stay together if it's not working. Life is too short to be unhappy all the time. It wasn't a game for me, and each time I got married I did it with the full intention of it 'lasting forever', but there was no forever for those relationships.

I feel bad when i see such things, but world is changing at a fast space, all i can say is i am with my wife for last 44 years and that is first and last, no polygamy, no multiple relations, no cheating, we need to fear god... Thanks for this nice post, cheers Happy easter Prof

I against of it,i think that feeling can not be regarded as the game,i only need enough for a girlfriend.

Hi siliguri, sadly some people are actually proud to say things like that, i don't like people like them, it is not only the matter of being careful with each of them, it is also a lot more about commitment with our partner, how would one feel if their partner was cheating on them .. i am totally against it.!... anyways, have a nice day.

i think the world is full of bad things. and those things can be people most of the time. just say people around you that you have 10gf and they will be impressed by you. if you say that you have one they will think about you as a fool. so that is a matter of time when people prefer to be more unloyal. and being unloyal is a matter of prestige for them. but for these kind of people why should good people change. even they have to face an opposition all the time and this is not the exception also.

well im not that kind of guy im honest to my one and only gf cause she trust and really love so there's no way i would get another girl as another gf it would ruin our relationship and the the thing that i love my gf i will not do a thing that gonna mess up our relationshp

I think it would be so stupid of me to be in favor of something like this. Its not right and I dont know the reason why other people are doing that. I also think that there are going to be difficulties in the future but another person would have to suffer it. I just hope that some people would be mindful enough of others and not just themselves.

Well, i dont support this any longer. I feel its there culture based. In india, i would say its rediculous. I cannot tolerate these things. And if we cannot stay with a spouse for a long time, staying in relation of love and trust, why do we need to live at all. And animals and we no difference exists!

Hi friend, I can understand what you want to say.I think the culture in which you are brought up makes lot of difference in what you think about any issue. As regards me,I am brought up in a culture, where it is normally expected that once married the couple will stay together for ever. So having more gf/bg or live-in relationship, sound very odd to me. But having on mylot for about 5-6 months i have been exposed to different cultures in different countries, through discussions. And i have come to a conclusion that it not considered bad for many members of many country. It may be because of culture in those country and importance they give to individualism. Probably they do not get too much disturbed by way of broken relationship. I have learned to live between such contrdictory views, since i joined here.

I don't think it's right to have more than one girlfriend. It would be painful for either one, two or more. Plus, you have to have more money for you to have something to buy/pay for your presents and dates. You have to schedule each date and make sure none of your gf/bf would find out that you have other relationships. Its a hassle. And I think that you don't really love either of them, and you just want to play and have fun. Because if you love them then you wouldn't try to cheat and hurt them.

Yeah,uhm people who are like this are somehow like a player or being played by other people, but we can't blame them because sometimes if your not happy or your partner is not happy how can the relationship last?, but i think if the issue can just be solve then they should try working it out because if you really love someone you would do anything not to lose her, if you don't then your just making an excuse and you really don't love her because its alright for you two to break up.sigh.