what will you do?
By jiraiyasanin
@jiraiyasanin (642)
Philippines
April 3, 2010 8:50pm CST
what will you do if your close friend suddenly attack you from behind, saying negative word well impact when your together he/she is good to you? will get angry or you will just move away from him/her?
6 responses
@aragone79 (82)
• Indonesia
4 Apr 10
Keep smiling and try to figure it out. Counter Attack is nice, for a few moment. But give huge disastrous effect in the future. Better for me to stay calm and keepin' cool. Why? because I want to be a winner but I postpone the victory. I want to claim it in the end.
Just stay away from him/her for a moment, and contact him/her in the next two or three weeks. Don't ever talk about what happened. Makes him/her comfortable. One day, he/she will tell you the truth about what really happened in that day.
We still have friends and we already claim our victory. Be a real and gentle man. That's will lead us to be "someone" and big man.
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@jiraiyasanin (642)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
thank you so much for your advice i will consider your advice as the best one, i understand what are you trying to say, tnx! happy mylotting!
@jiraiyasanin (642)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
yes you can be relax but sometimes its a normal action of a person to get mad and say something not good specially if he/she is your close friend then will backstub you thats stupid right?
@kgirjapurkar (175)
• India
4 Apr 10
Now a days one should not expect too much from any one so if it happens with me then i will just ignore it and go ahead with the life
@jiraiyasanin (642)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
oh thanks for sharing your idea, i will take a better examine on this
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
First of all im going to try and assess what happened now if its my fault then i might just move away for the time being it might not be wise to confront a friend when he or she is still mad, then when its pretty ok already i will confront her and ask him or her whats the problem then we can talk. But if its not your fault and he or she just attacked you like that as i friend i will not fight back the same way he or she did but as civilized person i will just keep my piece and just lay low for the meantime. I believe in time you two will be able to settle things together. Happy mylotting!
@jiraiyasanin (642)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
what i think is that if he/she is a real friend he/she will tell you if you did something wrong and will not stub you at your back! is it right setsuna26?
@netcoder (275)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
i meed to make sure if she really try to say something bad things against me, and once i found out about it then u will talk to her first and ask what seems to be her problem with me. if she will say sorry and promise to clear things out then ill give her another chance, if not then no need for her, i dont need a friends like her besides i cant even call someone doing like that as my friend.
@jiraiyasanin (642)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
actually i really dont want to lose a friend a friend is very important to me i will do my best to fix any conflict we have and i will say sorry if i really do something wrong to him/her, but if he/she still back stub me then maybe sometime we will let that person leave our sight to be able to stop fighting,